sina Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 I recently discovered that my best friend, pseudo-ex (we're on a break until december with a no dating rule) and roommate has apparently been emailing a girl, which I would have no problem with normally, but she sent him a picture of herself in her underwear...this has all been done in secret, and basically all I've seen is the picture, which was re-routed from his normal email to an address I didn't know he had. The email(s) between them were done on his work computer and routed the same way, to the secret address (to pre-empt the question, I wasn't snooping, we both have each others' email passwords, have for some time, I was looking for an email he sent about a job so I could copy his text...yeah, I'm lazy). I'm not sure if I should say something to him about this, since this really makes me doubt how I could be in a relationship with him, or if should just leave it alone...since we're "on a break"...also, it could turn out to be a misunderstanding, and it could all be nothing... Advice?!?!!? Say something to him? Leave it alone?? Also, I don't know if he's done anything with the girl, since she sent the picture a few weeks ago... gah, I hate relationships
jeepchick Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Wow, your relationship sounds super complicated. I guess it depends on what your definition of cheating is, but if you have a no dating rule, I would think chatting with girls who send him semi-naked pics would be totally against your NO DATING rule. What kind of misunderstanding could this be? If it was nothing, wouldn't he have deleted the pics/e-mails?
Hkizzle Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I recently discovered that my best friend, pseudo-ex (we're on a break until december with a no dating rule) and roommate gah, I hate relationships Why you hate relationships? You just said you're not dating him till December. Best friend, pseudo ex, roomates tend to create a lot of drama, lol.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Best friend, pseudo ex, roomates tend to create a lot of drama, lol. LOL...that's what I was thinking. Besides - you said "no dating." Having sex with somebody doesn't mean you're automatically dating them. I guess I'd have to understand what all the rules are. But why are you guys on break, anyway? I'm having a hard time understanding why you guys are "on break," but not allowed to date. Are you guys into self-torture? I'm not seeing where you have any right to ask him about it. But then again - like I said - I don't understand the reason for the break or what ALL the rules are.
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