Dmoney28 Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 i went to the local pub, to get a pint. And as i was entering the doors, i ran into the ex, her boyfriend and his mother. God, there is no worse feeling than that. I knew in it was over. But this nagging voice in my heart, said we went through too much...all those years together, the memories, the good times..the trials and tribulations..all the memories...and she is with someone else now. I felt a knife cutting into my heart. God i just want to go away and cry. Not a day has past that i havent thought about her...now she spends her days wit this other guy....god this sucks...sorry for the rant...just feeling like crap.For so long i held on to this pain, and have been in denial....well i feel like im at day one of NC after 4 months. Please everyone...do NC the day after you break up...its better
BW007 Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 If you ran into them how did you get your car back out of the pub? Look on the bright side.Screw her.She ain't that great.
bluewolf17 Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 Ick...why don't all the ex's just go to some island and be d@#heads ? Sorry you had to see them. Did she say anything to you? I would have just run in the opposite direction.
Author Dmoney28 Posted September 6, 2009 Author Posted September 6, 2009 didnt say a word...just waved,,,had my pint and got the F out of there
JMA707 Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 i went to the local pub, to get a pint. And as i was entering the doors, i ran into the ex, her boyfriend and his mother. God, there is no worse feeling than that. I knew in it was over. But this nagging voice in my heart, said we went through too much...all those years together, the memories, the good times..the trials and tribulations..all the memories...and she is with someone else now. I felt a knife cutting into my heart. God i just want to go away and cry. Not a day has past that i havent thought about her...now she spends her days wit this other guy....god this sucks...sorry for the rant...just feeling like crap.For so long i held on to this pain, and have been in denial....well i feel like im at day one of NC after 4 months. Please everyone...do NC the day after you break up...its better Sorry about that man...that sounds horrible...me and my ex have been broken up for a little over a month and she already has a new guy too. just a couple days ago i started NC. im goin home in a couple of days (ive been visiting my bro in DC to get away) and we live in a REALLY small town so i just know im going to see her and her "new bf" eventually...ive been trying to prepare myself for it, but i know when it happens its going to hurt really bad because i love her so much...
vayne417 Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 there is no way to prepare for that type of thing i'm sorry that you had to go through it. I know the feeling. i was in a long term relationship and just out of the blue the guy had a change of heart. he leads a public life so i had seen them in newpapers and on his myspace page. but there is nothing like the huge slap in the face when you see it for yourself in person when your alone and somewhere public. now i have taken what i learned from that person and made the best of the situation. i cant change whats going on but i can be the best person for me and keep going. now i know its hard but i know you can look inside yourself and take the best of what you had and learn from the situation and be a great person for first you and then for the next in your life. good luck guys i wish you the best.
jv032889 Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 I'm in the same situation. I was out of town for a week I get back and my boss tells me my x is in a new relationship. I haven't seen them together. I don't want to. Just thinking about it hurts me. I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm back at step 1 all over again!!!!
samsungxoxo Posted October 1, 2009 Posted October 1, 2009 Yes that does sucks but it's better for you because now you can move on happily without worrying about a possible chance for getting back together. If you still got pictures or other items mementos of your ex do throw them away and burn them. Now hang it there, you'll get over it. Not sure if this is work for you but here is what you can do, either one of these choices. 1) Hang out with all your friends or close friend if you got few and start focusing on your other hobbies, put a rest meeting girls, don't look for them for a while till, it'll come sooner or later. 2) Go to dating sites and check out girl by girl, go meet them, chat with them, so on. The more you meet, the more likely you'll forget on time your ex with her new bf. 3) Go get so drunk at a bar and end up dancing a lot. But just have fun.
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