AussieStud Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 I met this girl at a club last Friday. I was dancing with one of my best mates when this cute girl and some of her friend's started dancing next to me. The first time I looked at her I was attracted to her. She had a memorable smile that every guy desires. I leaned over and asked her her name. After that I made the first move by playfully grabbing her wrists. She wasn't really hesitant. I noticed that she was constantly looking into my eyes and I was looking into hers and she was leading me onto different dance positions. At the time she would raise her hand up in the air and she would spin around while I held one of her hands. I was really attracted to her as I asked her conversation starters such as are you at uni? She told me that she finished year 12 the year before and that she was a dancer/singer. I told her I was a runner. Everything was going well up to that point. I was dancing for about 15 minutes when I moved in to kiss her. I didn't get the signal to kiss her on the lips so I kissed her on the cheek and she told me I was really cute. After a further 10 minutes she moved in to kiss me and I didnt back away lol. We were very close for the whole night. I dont really dance much but I enjoyed every moment of it as she lead me into different sexy dance moves and she was impressed as I copied what she was doing. She was also there for one of her friend's b-day's and she introduced me to her. I said happy birthday to her friend and she stood up looked at the girl I was with sorta like in an accepting way and the girl I was dancing with hugged me almost sorta like I was seeing her for weeks. She constantly had that gorgeous smile on her face and would look me in the eye that would be breathtaking. Before I left I ended up getting her (cell)(mobile) number as she wrote it down on my wrist. She looked at me just in front of me and I told her that I would call her. My mate and I left talking about everything for hours lol. I called her 2 days later on a Sunday night at 11:30pm. I was constantly ****ting myself as what to say. I realised that she was in bed and I said who I was and where. She was like "hey" like she was excited to hear from me and I was like "sorry to ring up this late". I was really nervous. I told her I had alot of fun and asked her whether she was doing anything next week. She said she had 2 performances coming up so she was busy. and that maybe during the weekdays (Mon- Thursday) she might be free. She said "let me know darl" and I said that I would. J I find it very hard to control the tone of my voice when I'm that nervous so said it in a straight way. It was abit awkward mainly probably because I was really nervous and I couldn't change the tone of my voice due to this. .She told me to let her know and I said ill call you another time. Just before I hung up I said "have a nice sleep" I wrung up on the Monday the next day at around 4:30pm. I was still really nervous. She didn't pick up and her answering machine told me to leave a msg. I was soo nervous that I ran out of time and the message was cancelled. A couple of seconds later she wrung me up. I said, Hey (name) I rang you a couple of seconds ago. She said "sorry, I was getting ready for work" My main aim was to organise a date sometime instead of asking her questions which ultimately could just define me as a "friend". I was soo nervous there was a couple of silences, but I did ask her whether she had alot of fun last Friday and she told me that "I did". After that I was like "sorry I wrung u up late last night". She said "that's okay" in a tone that sounded like she liked me. I asked her where she worked and she told me at "spot". I was like Spot? and she said that she was a waitress. Due to my nervousness throughout the whole talk, which was short she asked me " are you alright?" I heard a giggle which was was difficult to hear. I remember asking her " so you said you were free during the week?" she said probably Thursday and I said that I had uni during the day. She was like "don't worry about it". I was like "Soooo?"and once again she told me to let her know by texting her. Before we ended the convo she said " you have a good night". This was Monday. I texted her on Tuesday at 2pm as follows " Hey it's Leigh im free next Monday, Thursday night or Friday Night. Let me kno xo" Since then I havent got a reply from her and decided to ring her Thursday night in that week. I only got to her answering machine. I left a message saying " Hey (name) just...umm ringing you up to see how things were going? Hopefully things are going good with you. Can you ring me back on 0424...... Once again I said this while I was nervous. I havent got a reply since and it is already Saturday of that week. Did I ruin my chances with her? Or do I still have a chance? Cause I've been thinking about it alot and have been trying to do other things and looking at expecting the worst if she does not call. At the same time I do not want to ring her up again too soon. Thanks for reading..
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 It doesn't appear you had any chances to ruin. It looks like she was sucking up the attention with no real intention to reciprocate. She may have given you her number, but girls do that for some reason even when they aren't all that interested. She wouldn't give you a clear date and blocked out any possibility of weekend nights (when a girl is vague like that she is only mildly - if at all - interested and is keeping her options open for other opportunities). I wouldn't bother further with this one. It doesn't look like she was on the hook enough to even be worth worrying about.
Recommended Posts