possession1 Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Im starting to think that my exbf's biz partner made up horrible lies about him i am out of work and his biz partner told me he had a great side business that my ex bf didnt know about and that would be a good job for me my ex and I had stayed on really good terms but he told me his partner could be a horn dog and didnt want us to ever meet i decided he mustve just been jealous so i met with his biz partner and we hit it off really well talked for 3 hours about business, movies, music finally he started drinking more and telling me my exbf never considered me his girlfriend (we were listed on facebook as being in a relationship/ i met his kid/ his oldest friends/ he told me he was 'courting' me, that he adored and loved me and he waited 2-3 months to even have sex) i was crushed when his biz partner told me this. he then told me my exbf once tried to rape a woman who was drunk and he , the biz partner saved her) he said my ex had a mistress when his son was born during his first marriage, some woman named corrine. that he has a bad reputation in business and the biz partner has three new companies but will only let him run one of them that my ex said he hadnt spoken to me in many months i was very hurt and when i got home my ex bf called i asked him to swear not to repeat what i was about to tell him he promised but the second i mentioned the word 'rape' he hung up and called hi sbiz partner the biz partner told him he never said those things to me ive since talked to the biz partner and he got upset and said i shouldnt have told my ex that my ex has since texted me that I AM shady and he doesnt trust ME (what ??? why would he say that ?) and now since then im beginning to think his biz partner is playing headgames with BOTH of us. his biz partner has now asked ME for sexy photos and said im so lovely and sweet and hot (he is MARRIED with 4 kids !) so was my ex right and his biz partner is just a horndog ? but why is my ex calling ME shady ? did his biz partner say i was crazy and lying ? it makes me sick because i think the biz partner told him lies about me too. so he is trying to divide and conquer. turn us both against each other. we actually had stayed good close friends. i feel like i need to secretly warn my ex that his biz partner doesnt have his best interests at heart. (im too afraid of his biz partner now to confront my bf about all th tales) i should add my exbf and i have gone out twice since our break up and his biz partner KNEW we were talking about reuniting.
Author possession1 Posted September 5, 2009 Author Posted September 5, 2009 I feel like i should anonymously alert my ex that he has a traitor in his midst.
quankanne Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 you need to come clean with your ex, and apologize for upsetting him. there's no proof that he did ... or did not ... attempt to sexually assault this unknown woman, but it wasn't his friend's place to bad-mouthe him. And I imagine because you ex knows what kind of slimeball he is, he warned you to stay away from this guy for a reason. does he believe his friend when the guy denied ever saying that about him? Who knows. But I can guarantee you this: You showed exactly where your loyalties lie when you (1) went out with this guy and (2) repeated gossip that he told you ... TO THE PERSON IT WAS ABOUT! And I'm thinking your ex feels you are not trustworthy.
Author possession1 Posted September 5, 2009 Author Posted September 5, 2009 you need to come clean with your ex, and apologize for upsetting him. there's no proof that he did ... or did not ... attempt to sexually assault this unknown woman, but it wasn't his friend's place to bad-mouthe him. And I imagine because you ex knows what kind of slimeball he is, he warned you to stay away from this guy for a reason. does he believe his friend when the guy denied ever saying that about him? Who knows. But I can guarantee you this: You showed exactly where your loyalties lie when you (1) went out with this guy and (2) repeated gossip that he told you ... TO THE PERSON IT WAS ABOUT! And I'm thinking your ex feels you are not trustworthy. well i repeated the gossip because I was SO shocked. I wanted to know that it wasn't true.
TaraMaiden Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 If this isn't a joke, I suggest you move. Country.
silverfish Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 I think you should get a job writing scripts for soaps / dramas.
stepka Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Oh good lord, what were you doing going out with the biz partner in the first place, when he's married and has 4 kids? No wonder your ex thinks you're shady. These things can be checked out. In our state we have a website called casenet where you can look up arrest and conviction info, and if someone has a bad rep in business, then everyone associated will know. Go check it out for yourself, but it sounds like you and your ex won't be getting back together, so at least keep the gossip to yourself.
Nagini Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Oh good lord, what were you doing going out with the biz partner in the first place, when he's married and has 4 kids? No wonder your ex thinks you're shady. These things can be checked out. In our state we have a website called casenet where you can look up arrest and conviction info, and if someone has a bad rep in business, then everyone associated will know. Go check it out for yourself, but it sounds like you and your ex won't be getting back together, so at least keep the gossip to yourself. it wasn't a date it was meeting in the afternoon i felt bad his biz partner talked so much smack about him...so thats why i tried in vain to share it with him. his partner claimed to use their lawyer to protect my ex from his bad deeds, so no it wouldnt show up in any database. im out of work and have 4 dollars in my checking account ... his biz partner had a great job offer. end of story.
dreamergrl Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 it wasn't a date it was meeting in the afternoon i felt bad his biz partner talked so much smack about him...so thats why i tried in vain to share it with him. his partner claimed to use their lawyer to protect my ex from his bad deeds, so no it wouldnt show up in any database. im out of work and have 4 dollars in my checking account ... his biz partner had a great job offer. end of story. Well we now know that Nagini has two poster ID's. And Nigini/OP - you've got some serious drama.
anne1707 Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Well we now know that Nagini has two poster ID's. And Nigini/OP - you've got some serious drama. To the point where I suspect the "OP" has been suspended - several posts have been deleted with good reason
dreamergrl Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 To the point where I suspect the "OP" has been suspended - several posts have been deleted with good reason No kidding? I never kept up much with her posts, as most of them didn't make much sense. I never could tell who she was talking about. but maybe the ex thinks she is shady for good reason..
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