sara82 Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Call me crazy but yes!!! a part of me still clings to some hope that my ex still feels something. He's been dating this other women since the beginning of June. I always continued to get the random text message from my ex just asking how I was doing. Well yesterday morning I got a text from him, pretty much stating that he's been thinking about me a lot and that he wanted me to send him a picture through my cell. I told him through text that I heard about his girlfriend, and that I was glad he seemed happy...he just responded "At times I am, but we argue a lot" I ended up sending him a picture message through my phone, mainly cause I've been really missing him lately. I ended up being a little silly and sent a text with the picture saying "bad! but i'm in a rush haha". He just responded.." You look good in all of them" As far as I know...he's still dating this other girl. Does anyone think this might mean something?? Or is he just testing the waters seeing if I'll bite in case this relationship fizzles out??
danny75 Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Or is he just testing the waters seeing if I'll bite in case this relationship fizzles out?? Possibly, but how did you guys finish in the first place and how long has he been with his new girlfriend?
Author sara82 Posted September 5, 2009 Author Posted September 5, 2009 He ended it with me because I had a bad day at work and that evening he ended up coming over to my place to hang out. I ended up taking all my frustrations from the day out on him. I "nitpicked" and almost verbally attacked him all evening. I'll admit...I crossed the line. The next day I apologized profusely, but the damage had been done. I hurt his feelings and made him feel like sh*t that evening...he ended up breaking up with me the following week. He's been dating this new girl since the beginning of June
danny75 Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Ok well yes you were in the wrong for the way you treated him for that day. But from what i can read into this is that, his new girlfriend doesnt come anyway near as good as you,and because of that he regrets finishing with you. Why else would he ask you to send pictures? just be careful that he isnt playing you because he knows you want him back and maybe he is using this as a tactic to get back at you. Maybe send him a text and say you would like to meet for a talk rather than sending him pictures of yourself.
Author sara82 Posted September 5, 2009 Author Posted September 5, 2009 Thanks for your reply. I don't think he'll even consider seeing me in person. He's currently dating someone...I know he'll never cross that line, so i'm not even going to ask. I'd like to think he still has feelings. It's now been a year since we broke up. We've been in limited contact the entire time we've been apart...mainly initiated by him. But he has given me the run around before....like wanting to see me, and me making a honest effort to reconcile with him....and then he just backs away, by either disappearing for a few weeks, or texting me the next day by saying that he "doesn't want a relationship" right now. Not sure if deep down he's scared to get close to me due to the fact that I hurt his feelings and he feels it will happen again.... or if he's screwing with me and he just doesn't know what he wants
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