4givrnt4gtr Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 Is it weird to have really positive feelings towards your ex? Not like "i want you back" type off feelings but more of the you're awesome and I really wish the best for you type? Im asking cuz I had to emailed my ex (we just broke up on wednesday) about him paying me back a loan I made to him a few months ago. Even though it was a touchy subject i did it in a nice way cuz I know he is good for it. He emailed me back immediately, very warmly and politely apologizing for not having pay it sooner and that he would do it right away. I sent him an email letting him know i understood why he hadnt paid before but I just really needed the money now (total truth, I cant believe I break up with a man I adore and the next day I wake up with an overdrafted account. Talk about horrible day) He emailed me later saying he hadnt been able to send it that day but would do it first thing in the morning. I received the money and emailed him thanking him for it and told him I hoped school goes well etc. He emailed me back saying it wasnt a problem and he wished me luck in my new job and that he knew i was gonna kick butt. Its so weird. I never had such an amicable break up. I mean as I said i adore him but I know he just isnt in the right place to be with me and he knows it too. That and for some reason he just cant let himself fall in love with me, though he has tried very hard. I think both of us hoped we could be it for each other but unfortunately we just arent. Its just really weird. has anyone had a break up like that? Unfortunately it has created a bit of hope that maybe, a few years down the road we might meet again and then, maybe at that time we would be in the right place to be together again.. Silly silly hope
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