runnergal Posted September 4, 2009 Share Posted September 4, 2009 For my regular responders and advisors. I wanted to let you all know that I've found out within the past few days that the certain guy that I ask questions about and advice, is an alcoholic. I had to sit down and really analyze to put the pieces together. When I did that, the biggest lightbulb went off above my head. I won't go into great detail about the pieces but I will say that I KNOW that he is one. It's the most heart wrenching thing I've ever experienced, but I know that I have to let go. As much as want to help him, I can't. He hasn't even admitted. I just know from the events that have transpired and the things that he has said. What pains me the most is that I've sat here for the past 3 months wondering what happened, what did I do, what did I say, what can I do, what can I say. The first month or so was GREAT!! But then there was the infamous weekend that he stood me up because his buddies showed up at his house and they got drunk. I should've just let him go then but I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt thinking that this was a one time deal. OH NO!!! Anyone remember the song "Joey" by Concrete Blonde???? Link to post Share on other sites
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