dianna Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 GOD I WISH I COULD DISSAPEAR. My parents are making things worse.Especially my mom ..every night..same fight " why are you so sad..get over it..you ruined my summer, your like a 5 years old, why don't you eat..you'll end up insane " I mean I KNOW but I can't be happy just for them...I need them ..I need them to be more supportive..I need them to be stronger than me.. 2 deaths, break up, constant fights with people, not so very good college grades, THANK YOU ..wish I could bury myself.Im sick of it...
lupa Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 I've come to realize that people do not know how to handle things when ones they love are in pain. I'm getting a divorce (31 yrs old), and I finally had to yell at my mother...keep in mind I don't yell at her, nor do I swear in front of her..."all I ****ing want is for you to tell me it will be OK!" That's the kind of support you need, and I tell you what, I don't have to deal with deaths or anything, but just know that it will, eventually, be ok. Time is going to move real slow for you, but soon it will get up to normal speed and you won't relive it all over every second that ticks by. Trust me. I know. I'm just starting to see the dimmest light at the end of the tunnel...and I can tell you that you will be ok. Accept their awkward, heavy-handed love for what it is. Love. Smile and hug them. Then come here and we'll support you.
Author dianna Posted September 4, 2009 Author Posted September 4, 2009 Yeah..I told her get the f*** out of my room " ..ouch..anyway ..i know its going to be ok eventualy but until then i'll have to survive
mr heartbroken Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 somtimes talking to your parents really isnt the answer. they are to involed at times. your friends are good people to talk to. even things like LS are good these are people that have been through what you are going through and come out the other side. Everyone tells you that time is a great healer it truly is.. It isnt easy getting through that time but you just have to. good luck and i hope eveything works out for you.
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