loveslife Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 The only physical attribute I care about is that he have a big, fat wallet.
Lish Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 Lish, why would girls say this: "his fingers are really short and that would be weird to hold hands with him.......... eww" "Wow, those are some tiny hands. no thanks" "Aww. You're fingures are so tiny. That would be a turn off. Sorry" "those are some tiny hands........" I started to think they were normal until that. I REALLY DID. I posted this pic: http://i998.photobucket.com/albums/af101/mrstumpy01/CIMG0778.jpg Why would girls say this?!?!?!?! Because they're shallow and/or just have preferences. Like I said, you wont be to everyones taste...just like my breasts arent. Some girls have penis size/girth preferences...not everyone fits with that, do they? I give up. You keep going back to what people think & say when really, it shouldn't bother you. It should be how YOU feel about yourself. Build that strength up and no bitchy comment will take you down.
gypsy_nicky Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 me thinks stumpy is a troll. DO NOT FEED. as for the original topic, all you women had to do was answer what you found desirable, physically, on a man. I know that society rears women more to look at the men's resources than the physical. But physical beauty, yes even on men, will pull you women in (that's how Johnny Depp partly makes his living off of). And since women are more insecure looks wise, having an attractive male may lead to more (insecurity). I also forgot to mention- highly attractive men also get the same "catty" attitude from homely men but its instead displayed as overt rather than covert aggression as with women. Caliguy, are you fat and frumpy? If you think personality is the sole purpose of dating and intimacy then your way off and too polar.
runner Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 And for that I applaud you, but there seem to be a **** load who care a loooooooot about height. Even looking at earlier posts in this thread show, height is usually one of the top factors, which imo is ****ing stupid, but whatever. i blame fashion and high-heeled shoes for the over-valuing of height. and what do most modern, urban woman care about ? yep, you guessed it--fashion and high-heeled shoes not to worry tho; not all women are sheeple if you wanna take this into darwin territory, a 5'4" man with bulk, wide shoulders and a lower centre of gravity can very-well take down a scrawny six foot guy if it came down to it. and yes i've seen it happen many a time
GrayClouds Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Lish, why would girls say this: "those are some tiny hands........" I started to think they were normal until that. I REALLY DID. I posted this pic: http://i998.photobucket.com/albums/af101/mrstumpy01/CIMG0778.jpg Why would girls say this?!?!?!?! How about trying that scene in the old Steve Martin movie Roxanne where in the bar he uses his weakness as a strength for humor. In your case I will start... "I usually like to date small breasted women, it will make them feel better about themselves" "Your just jealous because I can actually type on my netbook" "Are they small or I just thought my c*ck is really big...." "Did you know hands are indirectly proportionate to the size of ones heart?" "they are not very big but nimble and very good at detail work, can I show you?" "They are great I can give the finger to anyone and never get in trouble" "Think of all the money you will save when you buy me that wedding ring" and finally ..."I am a great guy to try fisting with":laugh: Other then that maybe talk to a professional, they may help you get past it.
ecm Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 I don't see how i'm being stupid, I'm being reasonable. If chicks are going to not go out with dudes unless theyre a few inches taller than them specifically for that reason, I dont see what the problem is. 2 inches of height is a large amount of women. So please someone give me a real reason as to why i'm being 'stupid' I don't think you're being "stupid" per se, but if I (or any woman) were attracted to people who wore heels, I'd(we'd) probably be a lesbian, no? Now, if you could somehow HIDE the lifts inside your shoes that might be a different story. (b/c those shoes/heels Prince or &*} or whatever he calls himself these days used to wear are definitely not hot). But whatever... I'm 5 feet tall so anyone seems tall to me.
ecm Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 (edited) . For some reason I just can't be attracted to girls who have longer fingers than me, which is pretty much ALL girls! You know what? I've seen many posts by you. I see that you talk about all the the things that are wrong with you. I see that you complain that short people are teated badly and that you hate the "heightism" in this country. How can someone who feels that they are looked at as less of a person (b/c they are 5'11"-wtf?) turn around and be so shallow? You won't date a girl/ be attracted to a girl with longer fingers than you? Seriously? That is the most hypocritical comment I've read on this website to date. So, I'd like to tell you this. Girls aren't turned off by your height. Girls aren't turned off by your "carney" (carnival worker) hands. Girls are turned off b/c you are obviously a d*ck. And yep, I'm a b*tch... especially to someone like you who repeatedly moans "whoa is me" when there are people who are born with seriously debilitating defects. Why don't you look up some of these defects? Thalidomide is a start. Maybe then you'll realize that you are the shallow one....not the rest of the world. But, I doubt it. Get the f*ck over yourself and cut the sh*t. Edited October 21, 2009 by ecm
lucy9216 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 for myself the first physical feature I notice is their nose!!! I know it's weird but I have always been that way if I don't like his nose I can't be attracted to him so starting with my top 5 would be: 1-nose 2-hygeine 3-physical fitness 4-height 5-teeth
Trialbyfire Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 I started to think they were normal until that. I REALLY DID. I posted this pic: http://i998.photobucket.com/albums/af101/mrstumpy01/CIMG0778.jpg Why would girls say this?!?!?!?!This picture has been photoshopped.
AD1980 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 I cant count how many times ive been laid because women lvoed my long luscious fingers Im thinking of beocming a finger model
Soul Bear Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 (edited) I think you should close this account name and start calling yourself something else more positive. Every time you sign in as Mr Stumpy, you are associating all that negativity of the name, with yourself, feeling sorry for yourself and pathetic.... If you want things to change, you are going to have to start to actually MAKE a positive change. Edited October 21, 2009 by Soul Bear
ecm Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 This picture has been photoshopped. Why do you think that? :)that weird bend in the middle finger?
boogieboy Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 (edited) Its perfectly possible that the pic is photoshopped.... Stumpy those fingers in that pic are pretty short, do they even have knuckles????? How do you type all that with those "pinky" fingers??? Edited October 21, 2009 by boogieboy
AD1980 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 (edited) I have a question for the chicks. I know a lot of you are like "I need a guy who is at least 3 inches taller than me so i can wear heels " and blah blah blah. But would you go out with a guy around your height if he also wore height boosting shoes? I mean, we've already cleared up that the height thing is for aesthetics, that being tall doesnt mean anything except for a "presence", so then wouldn't it be fine if a dude wore shoes that boosted his height 2 inches or so? I mean, there's no reason why it couldnt happen.... Another thing, is it weird if a guy wears height boosting shoes? I mean, there's nothing wrong with it, height is the one thing you cant change, and if girls are wearing heels then whats the problem... Great point.. We all can have preferences and i undertsand liking tall men or men taller then you at least but when you start discrminating certain people because youre near their height on shoes you wear it seems pretty insane and shallow to me.. Do these girls realize they arent actually THAT TALL?? Come back to reality ladies please Edited October 21, 2009 by AD1980
ecm Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Great point.. We all can have preferences and i undertsand liking tall men or men taller then you at least but when you start discrminating certain people because youre near their height on shoes you wear it seems pretty insane and shallow to me.. Do these girls realize they arent actually THAT TALL?? Come back to reality ladies please you can say what you want, but you can NOT say anything bad about shoes. Ever. And we know how tall (or short) we are.
Jersey Shortie Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 Out of the features given, list in order of importance: Overall Facial features Eyes Cleanliness/Hygiene Hands Smile Teeth Overall build Height Dress Style Private Part - We have to be able to "fit" Hair Skin Muscle mass/upper body muscle Eyebrows
AD1980 Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 (edited) you can say what you want, but you can NOT say anything bad about shoes. Ever. And we know how tall (or short) we are. Wear all the shoes you want but to not give a guy a chance because of them seems assinine to me.. Edited October 21, 2009 by AD1980
LexiB Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 (edited) My order of importance: -Height -Face -Body Build (lean - muscular preferably) -Teeth -Hair (I HATE buzz cuts) -Personal Syle (no real prefence as long as what he's wearing looks good on *him*) -Hands (MUST be bigger than mine) -Unit Size Good hygiene is a given but the rest of the features on the list dont really matter to me Edited October 21, 2009 by LexiB
boogieboy Posted October 21, 2009 Posted October 21, 2009 My order of importance: -Height -Face -Body Build (lean - muscular preferably) -Teeth -Hair (I HATE buzz cuts) -Personal Syle (no real prefence as long as what he's wearing looks good on *him*) -Hands (MUST be bigger than mine) -Unit Size Good hygiene is a given but the rest of the features on the list dont really matter to me Haha! oh Jesus, you JUST sent the OP hurling himself off a bridge......
LexiB Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 What if his hands were longer than yours but you had longer fingers than him... does that matter? My "bigger" hands requirement only refers to the overall size/width of the hand. My fingers are almost always a little longer than my guy's. I don't mind that at all. But he shouldn't be able to wear my rings is what I'm saying!
LexiB Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 WOW, height > all else? Women are ****ing ridiculous Not ****ing ridiculous at all Mbewood - particularly if the woman who has this ****ing ridiculous standard is 5'9"...as I am.
LexiB Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 (edited) Mbe...shame, shame That's a silly comparison to make and you know it. But to play along I'll actually answer your question and say, no, when I say that height is the most important physical feature to me it does not mean that if a guy is 6'5" he can look like a gremlin and I'll date him. Height being the "most important" feature to me simply means that height is what I happen to find *most attractive* in a guy. Just like there are many men who actively seek out women with long hair. This is a feature they'd *prefer* their mate to have. Why? Because it's likely what they happen to find most attractive on a woman. Now surely, you're not gonna tell me that ALL MEN WITH A PREFERENCE FOR LONG HAIR will automatically give a girl a pass who has Giselle's hair...but Rosanne's body/face???? Give me a break! The element of height may carry the most weight in my assessment of a man's physical attractiveness but it by no means is the entire assessment. Didn't think that needed to be spelled out... Edited October 22, 2009 by LexiB
LexiB Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Also, MBewood, height requirment isn't ridiculious if the girl is 5'7"-5'8"+... those taller girls just like to feel feminine, that's all, and big/tall guys make them feel petite. It's when you get the 5'5" and under girls that demand 6 foot+ guys when it gets ridiculious... Glad you understand Dont get me wrong, I love my height but it's nice not to HAVE to wear flats all the time...hehe
Jaytb Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Mbe...shame, shame That's a silly comparison to make and you know it. But to play along I'll actually answer your question and say, no, when I say that height is the most important physical feature to me it does not mean that if a guy is 6'5" he can look like a gremlin and I'll date him. Height being the "most important" feature to me simply means that height is what I happen to find *most attractive* in a guy. Just like there are many men who actively seek out women with long hair. This is a feature they'd *prefer* their mate to have. Why? Because it's likely what they happen to find most attractive on a woman. Now surely, you're not gonna tell me that ALL MEN WITH A PREFERENCE FOR LONG HAIR will automatically give a girl a pass who has Giselle's hair...but Rosanne's body/face???? Give me a break! The element of height may carry the most weight in my assessment of a man's physical attractiveness but it by no means is the entire assessment. Didn't think that needed to be spelled out... I think since you can just grow out your hair, it's not exactly an equal comparison. You can't just grow taller as you wish (if you could, it'd lead to some interesting situations ) I don't find any problem with what you may find attractive, but remember, it doesn't help short guys' self-esteem to here how they are unattractive just because they have short parents.
You'reasian Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Glad you understand Dont get me wrong, I love my height but it's nice not to HAVE to wear flats all the time...hehe I had a bad @ss lady friend years ago, whom I used to go out with. She was 6'1" and 6'4" in heals and slender. Loved it. We got along really well. She loved her height. For some reason, I felt really comfortable around her - but I can't figure out why she felt comfortable around me? Not that it mattere but I'm average looking at best.
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