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I'm leaving my office for the day. I'm going to buy something really f'g expensive.

 

You are SO flippin' cool! :cool: I laughed so hard coffee came outta my nose... :lmao:

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I think you need a hidden security camera in your office. That'll leave enough left over for a modest purse, say the new fall Jackie number from Gucci. Nice :)

 

Seriously, if you're going to play in his sandbox, you better get briefed on the ground rules. Glean as much information as you can and don't play fair. Guile and deceipt. Mmm.... I'm getting excited. Another politician going down....

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2sure

 

this man is a manipulative bastard X 10.

 

With the non security providing post nuptuial agreement and sending in fake friends to sell you out and get dirt on you.

 

He is afraid so he wants you to be afraid.

 

I know you said that you will not blackmail him with the info you discovered... but frankly, if he continues with these tactics, I wouldn't consider exposing his a$$ blackmail, it would be more like self defense.

 

You ARE strong enough to do this.

Courage is not the absence of fear...it is taking necessary action in the face of fear.

 

You can do this.

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I have told everyone, him and my atty that I am not going to use the information I have to "blackmail" him in anyway...I wont.

My point is...I dont see why i should have to, its dirty, etc....

 

But also, this is MY life not just his. These are the facts of MY life, what has happened to me, where Ive been, what Ive gone through, part of my experience. Eventually all of this will be just another piece of who I am.

 

I will NEVER, not now or in the future ...give up any piece of my own story for money. Ive lived a colorful life and maybe someday it will be interesting. AND who he is now is of no real concern to him or anyone...its all based on who he will be.

 

 

Never say never..... a book deal in the future about your life with him could be lucrative and writing about it could be therapeutic...I know, sounds undignified BUT if your H is trying to use everything and everyone to "spin" you....heck...all bets are down!

 

You are right, eventually this is just one part of you-a piece of you. It does not make you , who you are.

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