tigressA Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 I don't know why I ever thought I had a chance with my friend-turned-FWB-turned-friend-again. I didn't tell him about how I felt at all yet, but I thought about it, and I don't believe I should even bother. Why? He has a history of at least considering going back to girls he's been involved with before, for whatever reason. After we stopped hooking up, I heard he was thinking of going back to his ex-fiancee, but then he wised up. Recently after the split with his ex, he told me that he thought of starting something with an ex from high school that he had hooked up with not too long ago while she had a long-distance boyfriend, but that she "didn't want anything serious". You'd think that with this pattern, he'd have looked at me and wondered, "Why don't I try dating her?" But he hasn't. He's only gone back to me whenever he wanted an easy lay, and stupidly, I gave it to him even though I knew I wanted more (though if he ever tries to do it again, I won't and I'll be telling him why). He'll never see me as girlfriend material; he never has, and I don't know why I even bothered to think of trying to make him see me that way. Time for ME to stop looking to the past.
carhill Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 Considering the circumstances, I think you're doing fine. You learned some good lessons here. Put them to use. Fling more leaves. Life is short
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