amyleigh513 Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 hello there....what do you do if you stop loving someone? my boyfriend and i started off amazingly...we bonded together and never wanted to be apart, and i loved him to DEATH and he really loved me too. he was everything i ever wanted in a man, and i was so happy to give him everything... but 5 months into our relationship, his parents read my text messages and forced he and i to break off our relationship because they feel like i am not good for him. i loved him so much, it was unbearable. he felt the same way. he lives a 40 minute drive from my house and i can not drive to see him, so we saw each other once or twice a week by sneaking around. it was even harder because he lives in a different state and neither of us can drive. he's starting a new school this year and he plays football so we can't see each other during the day, and not much at night either....i broke up with him from our secret relationship a few nights ago. we text a lot. we talk whenever he's not busy or at football and i know he still loves me. he always says that he would wait for me forever and try to always win me back if i ever found somebody else...and i don't know what to say to that. ever since his parents made us break up, he's been so different...possessive, getting overly jealous when i would hang out with people ESPECIALLY guys, curse at me, yell, call me mean names, fight with me every day and my friends, wallow in his problems, hate his life, be completely insecure and miserable...and that's not the man i loved. he's so different and everything that's happened has changed my feelings for him. i loved him so much....and now it's deteriorating...what do i do?
Lizzie60 Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 and that's not the man i loved man or boy? Methink you're both very young.. otherwise.. if he's a man.. why would he listen to his parents??? doesn't make sense to me..
Author amyleigh513 Posted September 4, 2009 Author Posted September 4, 2009 and that's not the man i loved man or boy? Methink you're both very young.. otherwise.. if he's a man.. why would he listen to his parents??? doesn't make sense to me.. he used to act like a man, but now he's acting like a little boy...he's 16
Lizzie60 Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 he used to act like a man, but now he's acting like a little boy...he's 16 Well .. he's not a man yet .. dear... he's just a boy and he still has to listen to daddy and mommy.. He will, one day, take his own decisions... in the meantime you got to be patient..
Author amyleigh513 Posted September 4, 2009 Author Posted September 4, 2009 Well .. he's not a man yet .. dear... he's just a boy and he still has to listen to daddy and mommy.. He will, one day, take his own decisions... in the meantime you got to be patient.. i know that. but i don't know if i want to wait for that because he is a completely changed person.
Lizzie60 Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 i know that. but i don't know if i want to wait for that because he is a completely changed person. Then.. don't wait .. go have fun.. you're too young to waste your time on any guys...
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