K706 Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 Like my thread before stated....i'm hurting b/c my boyfriend broke up with me. Crappy situation. But he knows that i'm not doing well, so why does he text message me goodnight and to get enough sleep? He said that he would remain friends with me, b/c we have so much in common otherwise, and he will not be friends with me out of pity...But why does he text me those things? I wish he would just realize what he actually wants. I'm so confused.
TaraMaiden Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 The thing to do is to stop asking yourself - and us - this questionb, and instead, tell him outright. "Stop texting me. You broke up with me, remember? I cannot and will not be your friend while I am in such pain. I am warning you now, I am going No Contact so leave me alone and let me get on with my life." No 'please', no 'dear X', no 'sorry but', no 'thank you'..... Just the above message. Really, you need to get it through to him. The minute you send it, block him off your 'phone, delete his details, and make sure he can't get to you in any way... IM, e-mail, 'phone, texts, nothing. Read the link in my signature, and follow it through. Please. PLEASE.
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