Pocchi Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 Hello all! I'm new here, I just felt that I needed a bit of an outlet for all my worries and doubts and joys concerning my LD boyfriend. Well I tell him pretty much everything anyway, but I figured a second opinion is always good. Anyways here is some backstory on our relationship. We dated for an entire year, not long distance but together. Then we broke up because of stress, because of school stress, stress we were putting on each other, and familial troubles. The way he broke up with me wasn't very good, but not the worst I've seen. Then we got back together 2 months later, but it was too soon for me. I didn't trust him, but I wanted to be with him again so badly that we just jumped into it. Then broke up again. Now it's 6 months later, and I have moved back home for school. Keep in mind that I am still in love with him. Neither of us have dated anyone else, or mentioned anyone they were interested in. We both expressed that no one seemed to measure up to the other, and that we both loved each other still. We did this about a month ago. But as I still had trust issues, we decided to date first. We dated for about a month, then I decided to visit him and see if I really felt the way I felt about him. And I did. Those days I spent with him were some of the happiest days of my life. It just felt so right to be with him, and I was happier then than I had been in months. With him, I just felt right and complete. Then about a week after I had visited him, I decided we were ready for a relationship, and I had forgiven and regained my trust with him. Now it's been a couple weeks and things are going well. I feel like I can talk to him about anything, I'm constantly thinking about him, and missing him like crazy. Every day I find a bit of joy with him, and I always want to talk to him and wish I were there with him. Oh sry, he's in VA and I'm in NY. But of course the doubts come in....I worry if I really do love him as much as he loves me. I worry if we're compatible, I worry that since he's my first love I don't have that much experience, and that I might be putting too many hopes with him. I worry that I can't handle the distance, but that I'll be making the biggest mistake of my life if I'm not with him. Am I just getting cold feet? Or do we not belong in this relationship? Sorry if it's too long lol.
Rollercoasterr Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 I really don't think that "bumping" your thread after it's been active for 20 minutes will help you get any kind of responses. That's just pointless and kind of annoying. Sorry, but it's true and it's a big pet peeve. And if you have to worry about your love for him, then shouldn't that be an answer in itself? If you love someone and can go the distance you don't wonder about things like that. You have to be of a certain emotional strength to handle an LDR, it's not for the light-hearted. EDIT: You're bumping it TWICE? Come on. We all know how to read here. You'll get answers.
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