Bearandsue Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 SO I know I am always on here being all positive and dishing out all kinds of advice....... For some reason I cannot seem to follow any of my own advice. For the past 2 weeks I have been so depressed seeing other people in relationships, hugging and kissing and being all happy...UGGGHH! I know my distance is in the final stages but everything just feels so hopeless. I am being impatient and irrational and Its starting to get to my Bear but I cant seem to stop. I know I should be staying busy and positive but all I want to do is curl up in a ball and cry my eyes out.
quankanne Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 it's okay to do that, kiddo – just get it all out of your system, but first tell yourself "I'm going to have my cry, but it's only going to be for one day only, because I've got planning to do; I've got to start getting ready for Bear's return." because by letting yourself purge that hurt AND by giving it specific time-frame, you're going about it in a somewhat productive way. meanwhile, hang in there: This wait is just a small blip of unhappy/lonely/etc in what will be a long, grand love adventure with your honey. Trust me, one day you are going to be driving down the road and it's going to hit you that you've been married to this guy X years! That time has flown, and the not-so-good parts are far outnumbered by the joy and happiness you've had with him. And it's gonna amaze you that time's flown by so quickly. that happen to me recently, and I was totally blown away that I'd been his missus for 17 years, when it only seems like a handful! have your cry because you need to get it out of you, but remember, you also are entitled to happy thoughts at building a love-filled future together ... hugs, q
Lovin a scrapper Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 Im on my last countdown as well and I find myself completely impatient just wanting that day to get here which leads to irrational thoughts such as not sticking to the plan which is the best thing for both me and Rayette. We will make it Bearandsue. Lets promise from this point on....we will be happy people, stay positive and just have fun so our time will just fly by! Next thing you know...you will be with your Bear and me with my Rayette!!!! Wooooo Hoooooo!!!!
Author Bearandsue Posted September 3, 2009 Author Posted September 3, 2009 it's okay to do that, kiddo – just get it all out of your system, but first tell yourself "I'm going to have my cry, but it's only going to be for one day only, because I've got planning to do; I've got to start getting ready for Bear's return." because by letting yourself purge that hurt AND by giving it specific time-frame, you're going about it in a somewhat productive way. meanwhile, hang in there: This wait is just a small blip of unhappy/lonely/etc in what will be a long, grand love adventure with your honey. Trust me, one day you are going to be driving down the road and it's going to hit you that you've been married to this guy X years! That time has flown, and the not-so-good parts are far outnumbered by the joy and happiness you've had with him. And it's gonna amaze you that time's flown by so quickly. that happen to me recently, and I was totally blown away that I'd been his missus for 17 years, when it only seems like a handful! have your cry because you need to get it out of you, but remember, you also are entitled to happy thoughts at building a love-filled future together ... hugs, q AWW that made me tear up all over again....I know its coming to an end but God I wish it would move faster. 17 Years is a really long time...Congrats! I know we will Scrapper and I am putting away all my negatives right now. After bear comes to visit me in the Winter the next time I see him we will be together forever, no more distance, no more lonely nights. Thank you so much you guys!
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