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Went to a party last night...joined some good friends, met some new people.

 

I have to say that the only good thing was to spend some time and to laugh with my friends; as for the rest:

 

- i wasn't "IN" the party atmosphere: everyone and everything looked uninteresting.

- girls were completely transparent to me. A couple ones i found nice at the beginning, completely faded off during the night.

- i couldn't feel anyway any self confidence to interest a woman, had i met an interesting one.

- a girl friend of mine is sending mixed signals she might be interested in a fling...i'm completely uninterested.

- i left early, with my head full of memories of my ex, and of how we connected in a amazing way.

 

I wonder how many similar nights and encounters i'll have to spend/do before meeting someone who'll make my heart beat faster again.

 

And i don't feel comfortable with this though.

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I have to say that the only good thing was to spend some time and to laugh with my friends.

 

What else can you ask for? It sounds to me like that was an awesome time!

 

Why are you looking for other females? If you are trying to get over your ex, finding another girl right now isn't the greatest idea. Maybe you should try focusing on yourself? Let your wounds heal before searching for something else?

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Hello Erica,

 

nope, i'm not looking for other females, nor i went to the party with this intention.

 

It just came naturally to make comparisons or to puzzle around my "flat-heart-iness" at this moment. As well as to have memories coming to my mind.

 

You're right, working on myself and having a good laugh is the best i should look for, right now...

 

thx

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