HoustonAllen Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 I am a guy in the Midwestern us.... I met someone about four months ago after a breakup from someone of five years. When we met I was living in the guest house. As soon as we started dating I started searching for a home away from my ex. This was not a priority until I started dating someone and then it took me three weeks to find another place. Well the relationship between the woman and I proceeded very fast. Even too fast for me. But I still really wanted it to work. She came to vegas to meet me while I was on a business trip. Shortly after the meeting of me she decided that I had lied to her about who I was and what I was doing in Vegas. (I lied to her about the fact that I owned the companies we were visiting and that we were just staying in a hotel room, not a owned suite) Strike number one, but I don't care I would never tell the truth due to the fact of being screwed too many times. Our relationship was incredibly intense and we slept together over the next few weeks while on trips. I go on a trip almost every weekend of my life, just fyi... Well after a few weeks it was her birth day. I arranged many things for this woman, we went out for birth day dinner and she informed me that I was not her girl friend. This is after three months of dating so it really pissed me off. At her birthday dinner I politely paid for dinner, and took the girls over to the next club but! Once we got there the woman paid no attention to me and I was very upset. Her girlfriend picked up on this and made a pass at me. I went on to think the girlfriend was more interested in me and who I was dating was interested in no way so I hit on the girl that made a pass at me. The woman who I was dating immediately dumped me and won't talk to me any longer. I can't get her off my mind, and I haven't talked to her in over a week. The problem is I can't get her off my mind and I wish to be with her in every way I don't care if I am rich or poor I would rather be with her. I am currently well of but will give it all up for her. Where to go from here?
MadDriver Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 I originally thought you were referring to the skinny-guy-with-FAT-woman phenomena, which is very common in the South, but in the Midwest??
dreamergrl Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 You're gonna give it all up for a girl you've known for 4 months?
Hkizzle Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 At her birthday dinner I politely paid for dinner, and took the girls over to the next club but! Once we got there the woman paid no attention to me and I was very upset. Her girlfriend picked up on this and made a pass at me. I went on to think the girlfriend was more interested in me and who I was dating was interested in no way so I hit on the girl that made a pass at me. The woman who I was dating immediately dumped me and won't talk to me any longer. I can't get her off my mind, and I haven't talked to her in over a week. The problem is I can't get her off my mind and I wish to be with her in every way I don't care if I am rich or poor I would rather be with her. I am currently well of but will give it all up for her. Where to go from here? You learn from it. 1) No need to lie 2) Don't date bitches 3) Don't hit on a girl's friend in front of her. I mean come on, lol......
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 You learn from it. 1) No need to lie 2) Don't date bitches 3) Don't hit on a girl's friend in front of her. I mean come on, lol...... Holla! Move on, dude. She's so not worth it.
Author HoustonAllen Posted September 4, 2009 Author Posted September 4, 2009 You're gonna give it all up for a girl you've known for 4 months? Honestly if she was to truly give me her heart and want to not live with money yes. I would The money has been more of a problem in my life than a benefit.... If you have money you will understand what I mean. Also I shouldn't have lied to her, I know I was wrong, but I don't want someone who I am dating knowing what I am worth. OTH I miss her greatly but with your advice I have made the right decision and will forget her no matter how hard it is.
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