kaylee47 Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 i posted a post on here about 2 months ago talking about how my ex(justin) told me that he was over me, etc. after we had dated a year. we went NC for almost 2 months unitl last night i imed him just to talk. our conversation turned into a 4 hour long conversation and also took place throughout the day. we caught up and he seemed like he still had feelings for me. we also had planned on hanging out tonight for a bit. however, later in the conversation(literally 2 hours later) he told me he was interested in someone else after he made me feel like he still had feelings for me becuase he told me he hadnt let us go yet. well, i told him i wanted to be friends now if only we could work things out in the future. and he said that im being selfish, and not to hold my breath on it. now we're not talking and im not sure what to think. half of the converstaion made me think we were okay and would wokr things out,and now im left wondering again wahts going to happen between us. if you were in this situation personally what would you do?
caramel c Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 I would do nothing. I would never contact him again. In the meantime I'd be very emotional and hurt. It would set me back for sure. I'd be struggling. But I'd know that what I had was gone. And I'd be angry with how he handled this IM.
kimbop Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 You shouldn't get your hopes up. Take him at his word. He's interested in someone else and he has admitted to it. I know it's bluntly said (by me) but that's the harsh reality. I'm sorry for your pain. Go NC and go explore the other fishes in the sea.
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