conehead Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I’m just having a bad day. Pissed. Annoyed, Hurt. And I can’t understand why even though I never was able to develop strong feelings for him (I loved him, but never IN love with him), that I can miss him so much and be so hurt. Perhaps I grew attached and cared for him, and that was enough to feel a sense of loss now that he is gone. We knew each other for a year. And I wonder how he’s feeling. Is it wrong that I want him to feel just as much rejection/pain/hurt as me, if not more? But I don’t know…we haven’t talked since we broke up 11 days ago. Sometimes I have these really dumb urges to call him and tell him I miss him. Tell him that I love him and want us to work out. But the thing holding me back is my pride/dignity, and my fear that he’d reject me, hurt me more, or even ignore me….
joyinSF Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 you know, im going through the same thing. actually , ive not had contact with my ex in ...3 days and its killing me. Whats the point of contacting him? do you really want to be with someone who has hurt you already? what would you say to him? would hearing his voice and calling him make you feel better? would you guys get back together and everything will be all "happy"? i dont think so...thats my thinking. dont call him , dont text, dont email, dont do any thing that involves him. the past is the past. i know it hurts and youre wondering "is he thinking of me?" blah blah blah, but the point is, it didnt work out and hes moved on. you need to move on too. its hard but thats the truth. im here if you want to talk.
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