NYinTX Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Here's the story: I met a girl through a mutual friend a couple of years ago and didn't really talk to her much. There's just something about her though that has me intrigued and wanting to get to know her better. I've literally said only about 4 words to her ever. I sent her an email the other day basically saying that I want to get to know her and better and seeing if we could grab something to eat the next time I'm in the area. I didn't get any response so I don't know if she read it and blew it off/didn't know what to say/etc or didn't read it yet. I was thinking of sending her flowers at work asking again, not really giving up like I've seen in chick flicks. Would this be creepy, romantic, annoying in a woman's opinion? Any advice would be great.
Wakely Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Creepy. Wait for her to respond to your email; if she doesn't, leave her alone. You already put the ball in her court.
BCCA Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Creepy. Wait for her to respond to your email; if she doesn't, leave her alone. You already put the ball in her court. 100% agree. Giving flowers is a sign of affection, which is not something you do with someone youve said 4 words to and hasnt returned your email. I have an idea why she didnt respond, though... Where did you get her email addy from?
Lostgurl Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I think you should give her a week or two to reply. Flowers after 2 days of not hearing would definitly freak me out. Especially if you two haven't talking in a long while.
boogieboy Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Relationships in real life dont work like the do in the movies.
BCCA Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Relationships in real life dont work like the do in the movies. My first thought is that he got her email indirectly, either by asking someone else or finding her on Facebook, and I can admit to doing that myself before, but it comes off creepy and stalkerish.
fawn Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 flowers after a few dates, otherwise its creepy
Isolde Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 You should add an extra-fluffy teddy bear Seriously, it's not romantic or "cute" to woo a girl who hasn't given any indication of interest yet. If she says no leave it alone. It isn't like you even know each other.
Author NYinTX Posted September 3, 2009 Author Posted September 3, 2009 Haha. I didn't do some stalkerish move to find her. We;re friends on Facebook so I shot her a message. Thanks for all the input.
BCCA Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 Haha. I didn't do some stalkerish move to find her. We;re friends on Facebook so I shot her a message. Thanks for all the input. Whew, good. Sorry man, I just know guys to do that (as mentioned, I did it before), and women generally arent impressed you can enter their name into Facebook to get a hold of them. How long has it been with no reply?
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