SimpleSam Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 A friend of mine has been semi-pursuing this girl who has a boyfriend; they also live together presently. Now, I asked him if the girl gave any indication of whether or not the relationship was on the rocks with her boyfriend. He told me it was. Now, I suggested to him that he shouldn't get his expectations up too high, because this could be a minor bump in the road for the couple. However, my friend already has gone out to dinner with this girl (they had separate checks) so I figured it wasn't an official date. He reported back to me that it went really well, and that they planned to see each other again. The other day my friend informed me that he talked to this girl, and that she has decided to move out of her boyfriend's apartment in 30 days. I didn't really know what kind of advice to give him? May be she really is into my friend and is making preparations? I just don't know. I still told him to move slow because 1) you may become the rebound, which isn't necessarily a good thing, and 2) she is going to need some time to recover (apparently this couple have been together for two years). I'm just curious what advice you would give to a friend in a similar situation?
Hkizzle Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 No much advice you can give. Seems like the girl likes your friend based on the info you gave, and it's not like they will not date even if you said something. I dated a girl that left her boyfriend for me. She was loyal and treated me right. So really. No guarantees.
dreamergrl Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Is she planning on moving in with your friend?
BCCA Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 There is only really one thing to say: be careful. There are several red flags, but I know a guy who did the same thing, and he married the girl, so who knows. I would just be leery until everything plays out.
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