tomtom26 Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I am interested in a girl that is kinda shy and somewhat naive. We've been talking a lot recently (past couple of weeks), txts, chat, etc. I like her and want to ask her out, but I think she might even perceive that as innocent no big deal proposal. I want her to know that I like her and want to get to know her better, so I want to spend more time with her. I want to be direct with her: (Ex. I'm intrigued by/lik you (enter name), and would like to get to know you better, so I'd like to take you out to dinner this weekend) What do you girls thing? Any guys have experiences approaching it direct instead of the indirect way?
alphamale Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I want to be direct with her: (Ex. I'm intrigued by/lik you (enter name), and would like to get to know you better, so I'd like to take you out to dinner this weekend) What do you girls thing? Any guys have experiences approaching it direct instead of the indirect way? dude when you ask a chick out for dinner its already implied that you like her and want to get to know her better. no need to be redundant. here's how the convo should go roughly: you: hi (insert her name here), how are you? her: pretty good tomtom26 you: thats great. i have a really great idea her: what? you: lets me and you go out for dinner this friday nite to (insert name of restaurant) around 7:30pm. i'll pick you up her: oh ok tomtom26, what should i wear? you: something sexy her: giggle giggle tee hee, you're such a flirt tomtom26 you: i know....we'll i'll see you Friday her: ok, bye
Author tomtom26 Posted September 2, 2009 Author Posted September 2, 2009 dude when you ask a chick out for dinner its already implied that you like her and want to get to know her better. no need to be redundant. here's how the convo should go roughly: you: hi (insert her name here), how are you? her: pretty good tomtom26 you: thats great. i have a really great idea her: what? you: lets me and you go out for dinner this friday nite to (insert name of restaurant) around 7:30pm. i'll pick you up her: oh ok tomtom26, what should i wear? you: something sexy her: giggle giggle tee hee, you're such a flirt tomtom26 you: i know....we'll i'll see you Friday her: ok, bye Haha, yes, I've been through these conversations plenty of times. This girl is really shy, I don't even think she's had a BF before, let alone a sexual encounter. She's definitely has friends who have, so its' not like she's oblivious to it. But I feel any ambiguity or the implied things might get lost in translation, because I have met up with her alone before for other random reasons, not romance related. I think to a degree I need to almost spell it out for her, and for the sake my own sanity so I know that whatever decision she makes its directly as a result of knowing I'm interested. I've just trying to get some opinions of direct (I like you want to take you to dinner) vs indirect (you want to go this event with me) methods of approaching a girl.
BCCA Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I think to a degree I need to almost spell it out for her, and for the sake my own sanity so I know that whatever decision she makes its directly as a result of knowing I'm interested. Dude, women dont get older than 15 without realizing that a guy that wants to spend time with you = interested in dating you. Do you just invite random women out to eat, on you? Of course not, none of us do. Alpha is dead on, its implied by asking her out, alone; she'll know why you asked. I've just trying to get some opinions of direct (I like you want to take you to dinner) vs indirect (you want to go this event with me) methods of approaching a girl. If she likes you, it makes no difference at all
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