IfIwereabird Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Ok..I am dealing with the ex husband..who I have decided that I would absolurtly not let back due to years of cheating and truama. Now the issue is the man that I met 6 montsh ago. We hit it off major. We spent alot of time together and I though truly enjoyed one anothers company. I felt like this was my new BF. He told me that he had never connected with someone like me. He did alot of thisng for me and I also helped him out with somethings. However about 1 month ago..he comp,etely stopped talking and calling. He is a practicing Mulsim and his time at the Mosque really interferes with our tim eto hangout. I have confronted him on his lack of communication and absence and he stated that nothing has changed and that he cares for me. In fact on one occasion I told him that I felt that he did not like me anymore and he said that "he more than liked me..he loves me". However , I did nit hear form him for a couple of weeks after. When I ask him why he hasnt called he just says thinsg like ..I have been stressed ...my mom was sick..work is hectic. So here we are 2 solid weeks of NC. I eat, sleep, dream, and think about him 24/7. I want so badly to call him, but I also feel like he has an obligation to call me. The effed up thing is that he still occasionally sees my dad (for business purposes) and my dad knows nothing about his lack of communication. So I have to hear my dad come back with praises of this guy. I want so badly to call him but have no idea if I should. If I do I knwo he will only downplay it and say that nothing is wrong. Rejection hurts.
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