JimmyB26 Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I honestly never thought I'd make it this far. I've tried No Contact before, but gave in when she said it was hurting her too much. And I was put right back into the not-quite-a-friend, still-attracted but back-burnered zone. Luckily it gave me an opportunity to leave her with a couple of amazing, over-the-top parting memories before I disappeared. Anyway, I've heard from her sporadically, but I have not responded. I got the expected text mere hours before the LDR boyfriend came in on Day 3, just to check if she still had me on the hook, and then mere hours after he left on Day 6. I'm sure she expected me to reach out once he was gone again, but I remained silent, and by Day 10 she was texting me, wondering where I was and why she hadn't heard. Since then she's been pretty much either calling or texting daily. She even tried posting a picture of the two of us on my wall on facebook, where other women who I've been dating have been contacting me. Yesterday's was the topper though. She texted me saying that she's been "feeling pretty neglected lately" and asked me to get back to her to schedule time for her to visit. SHE'S feeling neglected? That's rich, that really is. Meanwhile I'm doing a lot of dating. Is there any suggestion as to what to do about facebook? My status has been blank for pretty much the last couple of weeks, which I thought might aid in the mystery aspect of all this. Or should I just block her?
ATR Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Dude seriously well done!!! Delete and block her from facebook asap SHE IS NOT A FRIEND! All the best man:)
Author JimmyB26 Posted September 4, 2009 Author Posted September 4, 2009 I heard from her again last night. She's getting really desperate now. She called and left a voicemail referencing one of our favorite songs - a soundtrack song from one of our favorite campy 80s movies. She only discovered it when she combed through the thousands of mp3s I gave her early on in our relationship. She said she'd watched it earlier (although she claims she watched the first movie, and not the sequel, which is where the song actually comes from), and then changed her story midsentence and said that she was watching it currently, and held the phone up to catch some of the tune. Then she started singing along for a few seconds, and finished up with telling me that I should watch it and listen to the song along with her. Then she said she hoped I was doing awesome and that we'd talk soon. How much simpler would it have been to just tell me that she missed me? Ridiculous. I'm obviously not going to call back. This might be a reaction to me removing the picture that she posted of us on my Wall on facebook. But either way, I'm sure her stomach is doing backflips now.
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