Dexter Morgan Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 Gawd- Today I am just sick of all these cheaters (including my H) and their boo-hooing. "I don't know what to do"...wahhhhwahhhh wahhhhh!! "I'm so confused"....wahhhhhh wahhhhhhhh "I was out of my mind"...boo hooo hoooooooo! "I never meant for it to happen"...wahh wahhh whahhhhh!! "I am on a roller coaster"...booohooooo bahhhh wahhhhhh and on and on... Somebody call these people a WHAAAAMBULANCE. Grow some balls and sack up. That goes for women cheaters too. here is my favorite....."my needs aren't being met"... well join the f####n' club. Not every little need is going to be met by anyone. Nobody can fill ALL of someone's needs and there are too many people in the world that fixate on something and bail if they don't get it. I like blowjobs, but I never got them in my marriage. Did I go out and get them on the side? No.
Woggle Posted September 4, 2009 Posted September 4, 2009 I am completely unsympathetic to cheaters who play the victim. They have no concept of accountability and have an entitlement complex.
tami-chan Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 Gawd- Today I am just sick of all these cheaters (including my H) and their boo-hooing. "I don't know what to do"...wahhhhwahhhh wahhhhh!! "I'm so confused"....wahhhhhh wahhhhhhhh "I was out of my mind"...boo hooo hoooooooo! "I never meant for it to happen"...wahh wahhh whahhhhh!! "I am on a roller coaster"...booohooooo bahhhh wahhhhhh and on and on... Somebody call these people a WHAAAAMBULANCE. Grow some balls and sack up. That goes for women cheaters too. This is very funny ....! at least you are only feeling it today. Sometimes, it is difficult to understand or even tolerate the seemingly UNENDING angst of people from the different sides! BS: Waahhhhhhh....after 5 years I still can't forgive my H...I still have days when all I think about is him and that b*tch...I am not sure if I want to stay in this marriage anymore......!!!!!!!!! help...what do you think I should do?????????????? AP: Waahhhhhh....after 5 years he has not left his wife, but he loves me...really he does....and wants to marry me and want kids with me. I just turned 40, do you think I will be considered high risk if I get pregnant in my 40s? help...what do you think I should do????????????????????? fBS: Waaaaaahhhhh....that b*tch has no bearing in my f*cking life anymore. I am so f*cking happy to get rid of the f*cking cheating b*tch...I live such a full life, wayyyyyyyyyyy happier that I could ever imagine...sure I am poorer ( the f*cking b*tch got more than she deserves-the f*cking judge was female!!!!), I don't see my kids as often as I want to and I live in this kick a$$ 900 sq. ft apartment but , hey current BS! Listen to me, divorce her cheating a$$, and be like me!!!!!!!! l...and on and on....the truth of the matter is...we all have our days...and we all are just trying to heal in our own way, our own pace... Although, there has got to be a point in one's life (sooner than later) when one can either a) adjust his/her life to the situation 2) or leave. 3) stop talking about it....or at least not in the same tone as if it just happened yesterday.... PS: sorry for the bad words...it's only for effect...
Author foreal Posted September 5, 2009 Author Posted September 5, 2009 Tami I am so glad you got it! It was a ventathon!! I am feeling better today for sure...but I gotta tell you, the thought of boo hooing 5 years out?! Somebody please start the morphine drip right now!... you asked in another thread if I was still M to H or not, yes I am..and having a hellava time deciding what to do. If he were not being so damn great now it would be easier..but he seems to be one of those MM who truly Fd up and regrets it and is doing all he can to make things right...which in a way pisses me off b/c he is always so damn, so damn, well, geez, as I told him and our MC, his behavior is so not like him, so out of character, he is Mr in control (normally)- if anyone was going to do something so stupid, it would have been me!!!
Devil Inside Posted September 5, 2009 Posted September 5, 2009 This is very funny ....! at least you are only feeling it today. Sometimes, it is difficult to understand or even tolerate the seemingly UNENDING angst of people from the different sides! BS: Waahhhhhhh....after 5 years I still can't forgive my H...I still have days when all I think about is him and that b*tch...I am not sure if I want to stay in this marriage anymore......!!!!!!!!! help...what do you think I should do?????????????? AP: Waahhhhhh....after 5 years he has not left his wife, but he loves me...really he does....and wants to marry me and want kids with me. I just turned 40, do you think I will be considered high risk if I get pregnant in my 40s? help...what do you think I should do????????????????????? fBS: Waaaaaahhhhh....that b*tch has no bearing in my f*cking life anymore. I am so f*cking happy to get rid of the f*cking cheating b*tch...I live such a full life, wayyyyyyyyyyy happier that I could ever imagine...sure I am poorer ( the f*cking b*tch got more than she deserves-the f*cking judge was female!!!!), I don't see my kids as often as I want to and I live in this kick a$$ 900 sq. ft apartment but , hey current BS! Listen to me, divorce her cheating a$$, and be like me!!!!!!!! l...and on and on....the truth of the matter is...we all have our days...and we all are just trying to heal in our own way, our own pace... Although, there has got to be a point in one's life (sooner than later) when one can either a) adjust his/her life to the situation 2) or leave. 3) stop talking about it....or at least not in the same tone as if it just happened yesterday.... PS: sorry for the bad words...it's only for effect... :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: Imitation is the highest form of flattery. I plead guilty to my fair share of tantrums about my self-imposed situations...sometimes you just got to laugh at yourself.
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