Heartbroken09 Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Seperated from the o/h really badly last thursday (found out he has been cheating the whole year pretty much i was with him with 2 other women). The last time we had contact was last thursday in which the last message he sent was 'im sorry for putting you through all this see you in a few weeks'. I havent broke the n/c since and i didnt even reply to him at the time. But now i find myself sitting thinking of him is he with them now, does he miss me , will i spend waiting forever for those 'few weeks' to come. Half of me would be over the moon if he text me again but the other half wishes he wouldnt as some may say ive had a lucky break Its only been 5 days i need some confirmation this does get easier! He was moving house this week (i decided to leave the area straight after and stay with family while i had the week off work) so now i dont even know where he lives but if i ask him think ill not be able to stop myself just 'going by' Ergh i hate emotions!
Meaplus3 Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Hi HB. What your feeling is very normal. And I will tell you that with time it does get easier. Especially if you can stick with NC. Sticking with NC will help your break free from the emotional part of the R. Once your emotions are back on track, it will be much easier to see things more clear. So there is hope dear. You just need to stand your ground, don't give in and move on. Best wishes to you. As you can and will get past this. And a big ((((Hug)))) to you! Mea:)
Author Heartbroken09 Posted September 2, 2009 Author Posted September 2, 2009 Thank you Just having a bad day i guess...Im leaving here on sunday to go back to our home town guess im puttin pressure onmyself to be over him incase i bump into him when im back and so i dont expect a text from in him again ''in a few weeks'' then if he does will be a bonus x
Ronni_W Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 ((((Heartbroken09)))) Like Mea, my experience is also that it does get easier. In the meantime, be gentle with yourself and just do what you need to do to emotionally detach from him. Sending hugs and healing.
GrayClouds Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 Seperated from the o/h really badly last thursday (found out he has been cheating the whole year pretty much i was with him with 2 other women). What a *********. You do not deserve to be treated like that. I bet he thinks he a big stud. I know it does not feel like it now but your lucky to be done with him. Remeber it is not only grief your feeling but rejection and betrayal. That is a lot of stuff at once. Allow yourself to feel it, get it out and slowly it does get easier.
GrayClouds Posted September 3, 2009 Posted September 3, 2009 ' then if he does will be a bonus x To make it easier STOP ALL CONTACT Read these: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance?
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