Funky Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 So were starting to get in the final stages of everything, I'm feeling somewhat better but still having waves of emotions and well it's obviously pretty hard to deal with that. She started packing her things in the house and noticed that she was crying when I asked why, she said she didn't know. We took down all our picture frames of the family pics, pics of me and her, etc... I'm thinking she doesn't love me wants a new life, she's just going to throw everything away, yet I go in the cupboard to get something and I see that she put all the pics away with her other things. Am I missing something here? am I thinking to much of this and being hopefull again? Cheers
NopeNah Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Yes.. you're being hopefull. I've never thrown any pics of my ex's away. They stay in a box in the garage. It's part of my past, whether good memories or bad, it's something I went through at some point. She could be feeling sad about leaving you but, the fact is.. she still packed up and left. Time for you to emotionally do the same, pack and go.
Author Funky Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 What makes it odd for me is that when she found pics of me and my ex's she freaked out on me (when we were together). So I find it odd that she would want to keep them after having such a reaction with me.
NopeNah Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 My ex did the same. Even though when I was moving out of our shared house ,before the breakup, I found a box of ALL her ex's,flings,ect..Hypocrite's some are.
Author Funky Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 Stupid feelings! taking over my life, just want to move on and be happy again!
NopeNah Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 For me it took accepting the FACT that she was gone forever! Never to be heard from or seen again..Only then was I able to start rebuilding my life. With acceptance came my closure. I didn't need anything else from her and started dating around and having a blast! I was also 100% ok to be alone forever if that's what came about..Hell, i'm a great guy! Why should I have a problem hanging out with me forever! It did take me a couple months post breakup to get to the moving on page.. There was a couple one-nighters and even "ex-sex" here and there(never a good idea).. But, once I knew she was gone and accepted it..I was golden!
Author Funky Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 That's Gold Jerry Gold!! haha Just anxious for her to be gone and out of my life, want to be mad at her and mean but I just can't do that to the person I love
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