Normaeinstein Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 I just found my boyfriend of four years has his ex-girlfriend's number saved under another name....a mans name in his mobile phone. I found a text inthe outbox that said "best action I've ever had" to "chris" Then I called the number, it was his ex. He says it was a complete mistake, it was an accident putting her number under the wrong name. He is massively denying that it was on purpose. Frankly I think it's all a massive lie, but I am also doubting myself a little. What would you think? P.S. I gave him the benefit of the doubt two years ago where I over heard a phone call he made to her where he said "I'm coming to f<*k you, she'll never find out" Like an IDIOT I believed his bull**** lies then, why am I thinking of believing them now....Such an idiot I am.
Lucky_One Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Wow he is good, if he can make you doubt what you see in black and white. You aren't stupid, and you know what you see and what you heard. Amazing to think that you would doubt yourself, instead of doubt him.
Lyssa Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 I just found my boyfriend of four years has his ex-girlfriend's number saved under another name....a mans name in his mobile phone. I found a text inthe outbox that said "best action I've ever had" to "chris" Then I called the number, it was his ex. He says it was a complete mistake, it was an accident putting her number under the wrong name. He is massively denying that it was on purpose. Frankly I think it's all a massive lie, but I am also doubting myself a little. What would you think? P.S. I gave him the benefit of the doubt two years ago where I over heard a phone call he made to her where he said "I'm coming to f<*k you, she'll never find out" Like an IDIOT I believed his bull**** lies then, why am I thinking of believing them now....Such an idiot I am. Fine, he 'accidentally' saved her number under a different name.. but what about the "best action ever"?? Did you ask what he meant by that? I'd love to know what sort of excuse he'd come up with.
jerbear Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Ex under the other gender's name, plus when you called the number it was the ex. I would say he maybe confused and it is time to ditch him!
Lyssa Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Ex under the other gender's name, plus when you called the number it was the ex. I would say he maybe confused and it is time to ditch him! Exactly. He must really think girls are really stupid. Geez.
Author Normaeinstein Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 Apparently "best action ever" refers to the best diving he has ever had. Oh the lies he spills out are classic. I must be strong and move on. This is my first relationship and sometimes I think he plays me because I'm not terribly wise and am incredibly honest myself. He is horrible and I'm upset that I've wasted 4 years of my life with someone like this
rudeaims Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Fu$k him! I would say, "Well, go have the best action ever. Peace out."
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