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[light2]

So this is my story. Not very interesting but I kind of want to type this out and organize my thoughts before I sleep. I'll try to keep it short and to the point.

 

We started our relationship September 08. We had the language barrier and she was very immature and spoiled. She was an international student coming to my country to study and I was in my final year of University. We met each other through being housemates. She moved out 2months later. Due to our communication problems, we had many arguments, which lead to our separation in December, but we got back together on New Years Eve.

 

Second semester starts, we were together and her english was a lot better and we knew what each were thinking and our communication no longer was a barrier at all so I thought. After the semester, she took summer school and I moved back to my city away from University. I would commute to her for 1-2hrs often during her studies in the summer. 1 month before she would return to her home country for 2months for summer break to see her parents, we had an argument but we got back together the day after and the final month was peaceful (So i thought). It was clear we were back together, as we did everything couples would do.

 

So in July she went back to her home country. We talked a lot online for first week. I even went out to buy phone cards and webcam to talk with her. But......... here is where it gets messed up. Suddenly she would disapear for days but I thought it was obvious that she is just visiting her relatives and travelling. I never thought much about it as I was working. In August, I started to wonder, what the hell is going on, she is never online, neither does she bother reaching out to me. (at first she said phone cards were expensive but please... she is from a good family).

 

So finally today, yes.. end of august, I finally ask her whats up. We haven't spoken for atleast 3 weeks. Suddenly everything she brings up were all twisted. She said we were split and I never asked her back? but.... it was pretty clear we were back together (very very clear infact) She had nothing really to say, other than, "You never asked me back". So.. in the end, the resolution was she would come back Canada and take the taxi (which we made plans 2months ago that I would pick her up). Our relationship is over.... All her memory seems to be completely different.

 

So for whatever reason, everything was my fault. I feel so cheated. Her selective memory and ignoring everything else... its not fair..

 

2months is such a short time, but so much can change. That is my story.. i tried keep brief...

[moo]

I'm sorry you are hurting. Sounds like maybe she was just looking for excuses to end it. Again, I'm sorry this happened to you.