sspiegel22 Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Well me again ..I had a post in the LDR section about me and my issues and how i was i was worried about me and my girl taking a break ,adn what it meant ..soo thought i would give a little update on my issues . Well looks like my worst fears seem to be comming true ...i am finding out things which are deff pointing towards the very real possibility she is cheating on me or seriously considering it ..so that really sucks ... ill never understand why people feel the need to hurt someone like that and cause them pain ...i want to believe she wouldnt do that but it seems i was wrong ... The guy is older and she claims they are just friends ..but ever day i find out something that makes that harder to believe ..they may be friends now but i get the feelings things are fast changing ...so bascically i sent her a email ...just asking for the truth ..hopefully i get it .. my real question is , can things ever be the same can trust ever be earned back ..has the past 3 years been a waste and meant nothing .How can someone trully love someone , but still consider cheating on them ...i feel even if she didnt cheat , just the fact she is still hanging out with him even knowing i am very very uncomfortable with it kinda shows a lack of respect for me ....why do people do this to other people ...
GrayClouds Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Well me again ..I had a post in the LDR section about me and my issues and how i was i was worried about me and my girl taking a break ,adn what it meant ..soo thought i would give a little update on my issues . Well looks like my worst fears seem to be comming true ...i am finding out things which are deff pointing towards the very real possibility she is cheating on me or seriously considering it ..so that really sucks ... ill never understand why people feel the need to hurt someone like that and cause them pain ...i want to believe she wouldnt do that but it seems i was wrong ... The guy is older and she claims they are just friends ..but ever day i find out something that makes that harder to believe ..they may be friends now but i get the feelings things are fast changing ...so bascically i sent her a email ...just asking for the truth ..hopefully i get it .. my real question is , can things ever be the same can trust ever be earned back ..has the past 3 years been a waste and meant nothing .How can someone trully love someone , but still consider cheating on them ...i feel even if she didnt cheat , just the fact she is still hanging out with him even knowing i am very very uncomfortable with it kinda shows a lack of respect for me ....why do people do this to other people ... The only way trust can be return it for the other to earn it. That takes a great deal of effort and commitment from them. It is something that is difficult for even highly motivated individuals to do much less someone who is not being honest. You are correct. Even if she not cheating she could realize her behavior is upsetting you and someone who claims to be in love would modify their behavior to make you feel secure.
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