arguetam Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 I don't know if this will help me, but I guess I'm willing to look for any outside advise. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We, of course, live together, and I always thought of our relationship to be a model one, since we get along, barely fight or argue, and have a great sexual relationship, among other things. Anyway, just recently I found out some emails from him to some chick(s) in craigslist, looking to hook-up. Not only did he email this chick(s) to hook-up, he also sent them pictures of his penis. These emails were dated from a few months ago, in March/April of '09. Anyway, I confronted him about it and he admits to seeking something on the side, but "swears" to never actually doing the deed and thus cheating. He claims that he couldn't go through with it. I can't trust him anymore, and as much as he sounds truthful, the fact remains that he was looking to cheat on me. What would you do? Would you believe him? Should I give him a second chance? Fellas, please give me some male perspective on this. Six years is hard to push aside, but I also don't know what to believe. I would appreciate any advise. Thanks, Confused
samsungxoxo Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 If he was looking to cheat on you then dump him otherwise he's gonna continue treating you like garbage...
Jilly Bean Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 You said you can't trust him anymore, and a relationship without trust won't last long. Cheating often happens in stages, so I would say if he's gone this far, he would probably go farther the next time. That is, provided you really believe he didn't cheat this time. Personally, if my guy was emailing someone for sex, and sending pics of his dick, him screwing her would be pretty irrelevant.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 That is the one time you caught him. I'm certain that there are lots of other times you didn't over the six years you have been together. I don't think there is much of a future with someone who hooks up with strange through Craigslist.
happyuk Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 He's gonna cheat so dump him now before you get hurt even more, dump him on your terms and do not take him back. He is not good for you, doesn't better if you've been together for 6 years. He will cheat on you.
Hkizzle Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Don't be confused, he emailed pics of his penis to a girl. Be a bit more confused if he emailed them to a man........ Dump him
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