give me the truth

[Lucky555]

guy I know likes me (we talk online, i do know him as a person), but i dont know if he likes me enough. We had a conversation about dos and dont's in relationships. He keeps flattering me and bringing up little things that i have said to him before. He was trying to get me to laugh and have a good convo. BUT, everything we said was based on the general idea of relationships and the growth of it. Not once did he mention going out or seeing how we go.

What kind of conversation was this. I know he likes me, but i finally said it, I said there has to be commitment if I were in a relationship. Now, he agreed about the general idea. I also told him that if the guy is interested he needs to make up his mind because Im not waiting around.

 

I don't know how to proceed with this. i basically didnt say specifically him, because he has not indicated his interest in me so its a round about way. I really didn't want to scare him off.

 

So what is he doing now? its been a day. I will give it this week for him to make some move to show me he is interested. I will keep living my life, but he basically has the jist of what i think and he can take it or leave it.

I'm just happy i FINALLY stated what i wanted and I am ok with everything.

 

I just discovered my own voice in relationships or potential ones. Stating what i need!! Finally Oh and being 100 percent ok because I know if wont work if the guy isnt really interested or is half heartedly in it.

 

I think I am on my way to discovering what is true happiness and hopefully finding the real thing called love. I'm not wasting my time accepting bread crumbs or dwelling on what if or could bes. Its amazing how I just feel liberated these days.

 

I think it has to do with leaving the area soon and just going out on a journey. This is why i say, hey guy you want me or you don't. I just feel like this new place i am going to will provide me with new opportunities.

 

Change is a good thing sometimes Now this guy...what do you all think.