Surfer Girl Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 I will admit I am co-dependent on my ex... He is a Cp that has been on and off.... It has been 5 weeks NC.... I was parked at the grocery store talking to a friend when I see his car pull in park close to where I park..... I did not look to see him get out of the car... I did not go into the grocery store looking for him.... I know he saw my car.... I just drove away.... and it was very very difficult not to want to go in and run into him... I must say, that was a very hard situation to walk away.... Set me back some.... I just need to vent as I am reeling after just seeing the car.... Please back me up with support as this is a first walking away.... when I all really wanted to do is see him.... This is He** I hate that we live in the same town..... Please tell me I did the right thing.... thanks.....
Serena2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Surfer Girl -- You showed so much strength!! That must have been VERY difficult!! You responded in exactly the right way!! And him parking close to your car. . . that's so classic and I suspect designed to throw a line out there to hook you back in!! You didn't take the bait!! GOOD FOR YOU!! Hang tough!! You're doing great!!
GrayClouds Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 I will admit I am co-dependent on my ex... He is a Cp that has been on and off.... It has been 5 weeks NC.... I was parked at the grocery store talking to a friend when I see his car pull in park close to where I park..... I did not look to see him get out of the car... I did not go into the grocery store looking for him.... I know he saw my car.... I just drove away.... and it was very very difficult not to want to go in and run into him... I must say, that was a very hard situation to walk away.... Set me back some.... I just need to vent as I am reeling after just seeing the car.... Please back me up with support as this is a first walking away.... when I all really wanted to do is see him.... This is He** I hate that we live in the same town..... Please tell me I did the right thing.... thanks..... VERY GOOD you will be proud of yourself tomorrow
D-Lish Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 I know that feeling- it's enough to make one physically sick. You did the right thing. Nothing good could have come out of seeing him. Just keep focusing on why you left him, everytime your mind wanders to missing him, just steer it back to all the reasons that made you leave.
phoenix1 Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Good for you - just think how much better you feel than if you chased him around the grocery store? How stupid and humiliating that would feel. I know how hard it was for you to not do it - you help me with your strength.
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