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How Do I Know If It's a Date If I Didn't Specify?


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Asked this girl on a date. Problem is, I don't know if it will be a date because I didn't ask her it in that way. I sort of just asked if she wanted to hang out, maybe get something to eat. How do I know if it's a date? Because that's kind of important in terms of whether or not she likes me as a friend or really wants to be with me.

 

Also, she's entering grad school, I'm entering college. Anything I should be aware of?

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Why are you leaving it up to her? If you like her then put the moves on her.

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Haven't had the change to really be in that position yet, and I don't want to be the idiot who misreads the situation and thinks she likes me when she just wants a "friend."

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Haven't had the change to really be in that position yet, and I don't want to be the idiot who misreads the situation and thinks she likes me when she just wants a "friend."

 

Why?

 

What do you want?

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A relationship. This girl is phenomenal. You know, beautiful, intelligent, and shares some of my most important interests.

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A relationship. This girl is phenomenal. You know, beautiful, intelligent, and shares some of my most important interests.

 

Then treat it like a date and pursue that. If she's not interested then you're not losing anything anyway.

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