gordon_gc Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 ok, it's really simple. I'm looking at advices or books about relationship and how girls think and act. I keep having these issues that, i'm sure, everyone has, and i seriously don't know how to handle them. For example, my girlfriend tells me she will go see her friends tonight which i don't mind. As a result, I organise my night to catch up on some work and other things to be done around the house. In the afternoon, she tells me her plan is cancelled and asking me what i will do. I'm being honest and tell her i'll spend the night at home working since i already promised my flatmate my car for the night (knowing i wouldn't need it). From this point, she is pissed off and cold. What's with that ? She mostly always expect me to comply with her plans and as soon as she is free, i should just stop eveything to stay with her ? From this point, what am i supposed to do ? I've done everything all night to try to make her feel ok with nice messages, ect... but na, still cold and of course, when i ask what's wrong, I become the psyko who reads too much into it. Seriously, i don't get it !!! HELP
Author gordon_gc Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 I think she is unstable and got some serious issues like my wife Just curious, I know my gf has some past issues 1/ with her dad (he left when she was still really young), 2/ Abusive ex boyfriends. Would that be a reason ? Does ur wife also have some of these ? That's a total guess and i might be totally wrong tho ! :-) you have two option 1- build a firewall around you and ignore her and let deal with it and get over it with time " of she doesn't then you got some serious problem " Is ignoring her really work ? :-) Trust me, I would be totally fine doing this but then again, I'm always 'scared' she might make the problem even bigger so I usually pretend it's all cool now until the next crisis.
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