BigBubbs Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 I've posted several times about my situation. My ex always gave me ultimatums when we fought. Our final argument I finally stopped backing down to her ultimatums and pleading her to take me back. My problem is she is a single mom and has being in abusive relationships and therefore is very protective of her kids (2 teenagers). Our last argument was when her daughter was sick and I needed her to talk to me (Needy moment for me). I think she felt I was trying to pull her from her daughter and then got very angry and exploded She said some not very nice things to me in anger that night as well. We then didn't talk until 4 days later when she basically said she needed to end things between us. I sent her a letter that told her that I loved her but couldn't deal with her ultimatums anymore but wanted to work things through if she was willing. I only heard from her a couple of times since in regards to getting some of her stuff back but nothing else. I really want to contact her again and try to make it right as I don't think she will allow herself to do it. It's been 2 weeks since the breakup and 3 weeks since the fight. Please help with some advice What can I do? I'm really hurting here and don't want to give up on this. She's 40 with 2 teenagers and I'm the same age with 1 child and we have been together for just over a year.
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