Are there any clues as to if a guy is lying about not being a virgin?

[dreamer0112]

My boyfriend who is 22 years old says he has had sex with two other girls, one girl only two times and the other was his x whom he says he was in a 2 year relationship with. I know he did date a girl for a while in highschool but I am not sure if they had sex. The reason I believe he may be lying is because of several signs the first one being that before we started having sex when we would discuss it he would tell me over and over again that I may be disappointed because he said he may *** fast and that worried him. He says that it is because he has not had sex in over two years. Also he would tell me that he didn't want to disappoint me because he felt like he may be small which he isn't. It took him a while also to kiss me. He only wanted to hug me on our first date.Another clue is that he refused to be on top. He says he never really had a girl on top and wanted to experience it and he wanted our first time to be this way. When we did finally have sex he would not get on top of me so I had to do it the first time. Also he was very rough with me but not intentionally, he didn't seem to know how to touch a girl in certain areas and was a little rough with that or with my breast and he knows very little about areas on a girl such as what pleases a girl and what doesn't and was a little bad with oral sex. Another thing is his friend told me that he has never really seen him with a girl.And last of all he had alot of things he wanted to try that he had never done before.

I could careless if he has or hasn't had sex but I just feel like he may be keeping something from me as far as how experienced he really is.

[borbiusle]

Sounds like he's had very little sex/inexperienced. His list of things he wants to try is probably just a way to over-compensate for his lack of experience, to get you excited. Plus, if he messes up any of his "new" techniques, he won't have to feel bad. Sorry if I sound like an ass, not trying to rip into your BF, but I've been in his shoes before.

[xpaperxcutx]

It has to do with experience. Even virgins, if they watch enough porn and sex manuals, can perform well in the bedroom.

 

Maybe your bf is just embarrassed and a little clumsy in that area. It's nothing to be ashamed about, in fact it gives the both of you an opportunity to experiment with different positions and techniques.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

I could careless if he has or hasn't had sex

 

 

Bingo!

 

 

Now seems a good time to start trying to care less.

 

Much less.