IfIwereabird Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 This is a short story..he cheated off an on for 10 years...abandoned me while I was pregnant. Teh other woman is now pregnant..he wanst to come back...refusing to grant the divorce. is the one making demands on wanting to know where he stands. Is he crazy..I say no way in hell! He says that he wanst to be with me and our 2 children.
skywriter Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 Hi IfIWereABird, 10 yrs of cheating , oh my.... He says he wants to come back to his family. You have a mind of your own and you have instincts, listen to them closely.
lupa Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 Yeah, I'm going to have to say, "Why are you even asking us? There is no way he is 'reformed' or a better person. Done and done, people deserve loyalty."
LisaUk Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 The OW is now pregnant? You don't know what to do, whether to take hime back? Hunny, YOU DESRERVE BETTER, allow yourself to have better and kick him to the curb!
Gunny376 Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 I don't know your complete and total situation, but you can do better!
broken hearted Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 I'm sorry but that's crazy to me...this other woman is pregnant and you might still want to be with him?? You deserve so much better! No one deserves what has been thrown on your plate! My husband left while I was pregnant too and then starting seeing another woman a couple months later but she did not end up pregnant and we are still divorcing...filed just weeks ago even though I am expecting our second child in a week!!
SummerLady Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 This is a short story..he cheated off an on for 10 years...abandoned me while I was pregnant. Teh other woman is now pregnant..he wanst to come back...refusing to grant the divorce. is the one making demands on wanting to know where he stands. Is he crazy..I say no way in hell! He says that he wanst to be with me and our 2 children. Oh how familiar. My ex husband cheated on me for about 9 years. Very painful when I found out. Think this through. This person did this not once but over the course of 10 years. How can anyone forgive this? I can't. and I didn't. This is not what a commited relationship is about. Now I have moved on and found a great man. I will always have trust issues due to this. Nice gift to give me huh. Run away........Far away.
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