Vet Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 That too, is BS. I sense it. No, no, no. He said he already got the "green light" from his publisher to write it. The Force is strong with this one.
Author Hkizzle Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 No, no, no. He said he already got the "green light" from his publisher to write it. The Force is strong with this one. God, you're so obssessed with me, from just one statement I made ages ago. If people can get to you so badly I bet you got real anger issues in real life.
Vet Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 God, you're so obssessed with me, from just one statement I made ages ago. If people can get to you so badly I bet you got real anger issues in real life. Yeah, maybe. Or you're just a really easy target.
Author Hkizzle Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 Yeah, maybe. Or you're just a really easy target. No I think it's the first because I don't chase someone around for fun, unless you're gay and want to leg hump me. You have anger issues. You seen this clip? This you at work?
Author Hkizzle Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 I think jerks, for the most part, fall into the low self-esteem category because they have to make others feel bad to make themselves feel better. Btw, quoting Cali guy here. and you, VET "Yeah, maybe. Or you're just a really easy target."
Jersey Shortie Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Women want to be the special one that can actually change the jerk I would change that to : Women want to be special to one man that excites them and makes them feel deep passion. Look, men want adventure and excitement and passion in their lives. women are no different. Unfortunetly, it is often "bad boys" that make women feel this way. "Nice guys", while logically and obviously the better option, don't spark those same feelings all the time. Women don't want jerks and they don't really want bad boys. They want strong, adventurous men that spark deep passion in her heart just like men want the same from a woman, they want a woman that sparks them on an emotional level. Relationships aren't logical. For men or women. Learn to be a truly good man that is GOOD but makes a woman feel like "the one" special lady, and you have found the key to success with women. There is ALOT of competition out there for us women. We don't ask the whole world to love us..unless we are Lindsey Lohen. We just ask that ONE man on this planet make us feel alive, loved, cherished, sexy and special.
Author Hkizzle Posted September 1, 2009 Author Posted September 1, 2009 I would change that to : Women want to be special to one man that excites them and makes them feel deep passion. Look, men want adventure and excitement and passion in their lives. women are no different. Unfortunetly, it is often "bad boys" that make women feel this way. "Nice guys", while logically and obviously the better option, don't spark those same feelings all the time. Women don't want jerks and they don't really want bad boys. They want strong, adventurous men that spark deep passion in her heart just like men want the same from a woman, they want a woman that sparks them on an emotional level. Relationships aren't logical. For men or women. Learn to be a truly good man that is GOOD but makes a woman feel like "the one" special lady, and you have found the key to success with women. There is ALOT of competition out there for us women. We don't ask the whole world to love us..unless we are Lindsey Lohen. We just ask that ONE man on this planet make us feel alive, loved, cherished, sexy and special. Well said...... I think most girls find it hard to admit what you just said though, or they don't verbalize it.
CaliGuy Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 Jersey, I agree you in many aspects. It's unfortunate for most women that they feel the "jerk" is a better option. He is on the surface because of the challenge and the drama -- all NEGATIVE reasons. The "nice guy" is not as attractive for all the RIGHT reasons (reliable, dependable, little drama, etc). It's not until women REALLY mature that they decide the drama and all the crap that comes with dating a jerk/bad boy isn't worth it. That said a balanced/good man is ideal. Not quite the challenge of a jerk/bad boy but also none of the "gag me with a spoon" lame-ness of the nice guy. The only possible way for a woman to weed out and find the good/balanced guy is to be a good/balanced woman herself. If she's not then she will tend to gravitate towards the jerk/bad boy. Not just for the excitement or challenge, but because they feel he's the best they can do and they are extremely afraid (no self-esteem or confidence) of being alone. And that, I would guess, is why they seem to cling to terrible relationships. Bad boys = bad relationship material.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 The "nice guy" is not as attractive for all the RIGHT reasons (reliable, dependable, little drama, etc). It's not until women REALLY mature that they decide the drama and all the crap that comes with dating a jerk/bad boy isn't worth it. I feel the need to point out something here. A "nice guy" is not unattractive because of the so-called "right" reasons you listed. A nice guy is unattractive because being nice isn't enough. For men OR women. There are alot of reliable, dependable, little drama females out there that probably YOU yourself have passed up. If being "nice" was enough, the world would be a more simplistic place. Better place? I don't know but simplistic, yes. The fact is being "nice" isn't and really shouldn't be enough for either gender. And in my dating experiecings I have run into enough self-proclaimed "nice-guys" to understand that some weren't even that nice. Just because you don't beat puppies and your ex girlfriends or don't curse at your mom, doesn't mean your a "nice guy". Some men can be quite passive aggressive. And sometimes, it's self-proclaimed "nice-guys" that tend to be. Women don't want "bad boys" and they don't want "nice guys". They want "good men". It's as simple as that. That's what seperates the men from the boys/guys. It's not until women REALLY mature that they decide the drama and all the crap that comes with dating a jerk/bad boy isn't worth it. I think men go through similar experiences with bad/jerk girls. That said a balanced/good man is ideal. Not quite the challenge of a jerk/bad boy but also none of the "gag me with a spoon" lame-ness of the nice guy. Agree with you Cali. The only possible way for a woman to weed out and find the good/balanced guy is to be a good/balanced woman herself. If she's not then she will tend to gravitate towards the jerk/bad boy. Not just for the excitement or challenge, but because they feel he's the best they can do and they are extremely afraid (no self-esteem or confidence) of being alone. And that, I would guess, is why they seem to cling to terrible relationships. Bad boys = bad relationship material. Again, I agree.
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