MSUE Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 Well, I for one have been through alot of break ups, as dumpee and dumper. I always try to fix problems. Trust issues are going to hinder anyone. I have them as well, since my current Ex GF decided to leave for really no reason. I am going to therapy to resolve that. IDK. It is what it is. But if he is doing everything she has asked, and the problem is "fixeD" by his ACTIONS, not his words, then be happy with each other. Most people would end it and move on. It's just cowardice. I gotcha and I respect your view...but I don't see moving on as a cowardly action...I see moving on as me not being masochistic...I just feel that if I was in her shoes...I can do better...I deserve a man that doesn't leave me in the first place specially for an ex...I mean what a stab in the heart...what a slap in the face...someone that does a back and forth like that to me is unsure of what they truly want and perhaps scare of being lonely...some people must be in a relationship at all times...2 great girls that he by now knows either one will take him back...not cool in my book...I just can't see myself taking him back in the first place...not to mention it will always haunt her...it'll always be in the back of her head...and a ring on a finger its not a guarantee by any means that the cycle wont repeat itself... Kudos to you...truly...if you can work such a situation out...not me though
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