mmk1 Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I decided to just stop calling my ex of 3 years but we have gone out twice over the last month on Fridays for drinks. In the past, she could not keep her hands off me when drinking and I hope (perhaps foolishly) that one of the times it will happen again. It was platonic both times, however. I will not meet her for lunch or chat on the phone like girlfriends. After the last time, a week ago, she emailed me Monday morning with some drivel and closed her email with "Friday was great! I hope you had fun too! :)" Obviously, fishing for some validation from me. I said it was fun and to call when she wanted to go out again. She then immediately replied with more drivel and closed with “Friday was a blast. I wonder if the costume changes for winter? Maybe fur lined push up bras? Guess we'll see! " The waitresses at the bar we went to had skimpy outfits. I did not reply and will not initiate more contact but I'll meet her for drinks again if she asks. Is this providing the challenge that NightLord1 talked about in another thread or is this going nowhere? Do I occassionally need to contact her to keep her interest or just wait for her. I am prepared to be patient. Thoughts??
Thaddeus Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 You're friend-zoned. Whether you provide a challenge, or whether you're patient or not is completely immaterial. Chances of getting romantically involved with her are about 1 in 50.
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