rosey77 Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Hiya, Well I broke it off on Thursday. He tried to say he asked his wife for a divorce. Something i may never know is true or not. He came to my home without warning thursday night and accused me of messing with his head. He was very strange. Friday morn i called him and told him i could not take the drama anymore. i told him he needs to think about his children and ask himself if he wants them without a father etc. Then i text him later to tell him to leave me alone and never contact me in any way. But Later that morning i was at a friends house and he showed up there. I was terrified. But he was smiling. he said thanks for showing him love and that he was there to say goodbye. But that afternoon he text me saying he loves me and wishes me all the best life has to offer and later still he called me. I wish i hadnt answered. I told him he knows what he needs to do and he should do it now. I havent heard from him since and i am glad. I already feel better about myself. i just want him to stay the hell away from me. We were only together about 2 months . Friends before that. i cant belive the depth of feeling we went thru. Now i am just scared he will try to contact me again. But i hope he has realised it is for the best. the last time we were intimate was about 10 days ago. he told me that day that he almost didnt come over because he was asking himself what the hell he was doing. he said the guilt was driving him nuts. he was worried about his wife. I knew then he loved her. Anyhow i hope against hope he stays away. i really dont ever want to see him ever again. its easier for me that way. Even if he was telling the truth and was leaving her , i could never be happy knowing how it happened. I know he would regret it. He told me that he felt bonded her because of all the years they were together. With me i know it was only sex. Nothing more. happy to move on now and feeling free. thanks Rosey
ednadean Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 wow! good on you. Don't count on the fact that he won't try to contact you again -- he might -- but stay strong and we'll be here for you. Sounds like you made a really positive decision for yourself! Hugs -- it will get easier with time.
Solear Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 i was the other man, our relationship went on 1.5 years, its good that you broke it off, means you feel in control of your emotions. it wouldnt have gone anywhere anyway no matter how real it seemed. I've sat with people who are having affairs and heard how they talk about their mistress or other man, and they have very little respect for them at all. Makes me sick that i got involved. Keep your integrity. dont be lied to and no matter what power they seem to have hold of you. you have to remain strong focused and dont take any **** from anyone
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