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why when a married guy go on dating site older women start attacking him

calling him "bastard "and "evil person" and "not a nice person"

and when a married woman get into a dating site every body cheer for her and congratulate her for coming out of the closet.

 

here is some of my proofs

 

I posted add that an older "didn't mention married or single"male looking for nice pretty younger girl "LEGAL AGE"

I got so many nasty responses and then the ad flagged and deleted

 

I posted ad about older married male looking for married or single female

and I wrote half page romantic letter

I also got lot of nasty responses and the add was not deleted

however I got no regular female responses " only few desperate women responded that they are uglier than my wife"

also I got plenty of responses from sex seller " even though I mentioned in the ad that I am not interested in SEX spam"

 

finally I posted an ad about a MARRIED young FEMALE and and I didn't write much other that age is not a factor

I showed some picture with little skin on it

and oh man I got 200 to 300 responses from guys some of the VP some doctors and some lawyers IN TWO DAYS

 

It is kinda like double standard don't you agree.

:(

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Instead of going on dating sites, why not either try to spice up your sex life at home with your wife, talk to her, be honest and let her know that you're unhappy..GOING out and looking for sex on the side is not a good way of handling this.

 

Either fix your marriage, or divorce. Don't cheat on your wife..After 14 years, give her some respect and don't do the worst thing a spouse can do to their spouse..Cheat.

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I can give you her number may be you can talk to her for me

by the way when I cheat you will be the first to know

not planning on it

don't be like all these old women on other sites

this is dating site you wanna preach go to church

by the way she knows I am doing this because I TOLD HER and guess what she doesn't care less

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Actually, I have to say that I conducted a similar but smaller experiment.

 

I have an email friend (MW from another board who I gave feedback re her H's affair). She told me of the dating site he used and to see the profile, I signed up briefly. (And before I get flamed, I have not been on since and this was two years ago).

 

Anyhow, first I signed as a male in my state.I did not get a single response. My friend said she was appalled at how many responses she got from married men. She was disgusted obviously and hurt and never signed on again.

 

So, I changed my name slightly and put in as female from my state.

 

Suddenly within fifteen minutes I began receiving emails from guys. I even got pics. I answered none.

 

Then at a whim, I changed the state. Again, within fifteen minutes I began receiving emails from married men in THAT state.

 

I saw enough and quit. I could not believe the gall that men had when they truthfully had no clue who was on the other end. Mind you...there was no pic in my profile.

 

So, OP, if you are doing it as a way to have an affair, I cannot condone it. Do not sink to that level. If you simply did it as an experiment, then you have some answers and stay away from such sites.

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This isn't a dating site:mad::mad:What gave you that idea. Is it the view from the crack?

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that's exactly what I am I am trying to say that most dating sites are a joke

and you wouldn't know who you dealing with

frankly after the experiment I got disgusted with the whole dating sites game

I think it is sick and they make the site for one purpose only

MAKE MONEY

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Um duh your putting "MARRIED" if you go on there trolling for females of course they are gonna take offense to it.

 

lol. good lord.

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You like playing online tricks on people, don't you. Just in another thread, you said you posted about wanting to step out and get some strange outside of your relationship here on loveshack.

 

Why are you motivated to these ruses?

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