wow123 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 I figured I would post this to help others looking for a second chance. Everyone on LS says that unless the dumper comes back nearly begging for a second chance don't reconcile. Well I didn't listen and learned the hard way. She came back first acting like she did when we first met. That didn't last long (1 week). She admitted that she can't be in a relationship with me right now because she can't put 100% into it. So the lesson is unless they truly show you, not tell you that they want you and only you, don't let yourself get sucked back in because it will bring you back to square 1. This is the reason you should go NC or very LC only returning calls/texts when you get a chance, never right away. Make them fight for you. Hope this helps someone. I wouldn't say im back to square one, but I have definitely regressed in my healing significantly.
CaliGuy Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Haven't I been saying this for years?! Unless they are LITERALLY beating down your door, they are wasting YOUR time.
Author wow123 Posted August 30, 2009 Author Posted August 30, 2009 Caliguy, Yes you told me this before I began reconciling with her. Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way. I figured if I posted a summary of my story I could help others to not make the same mistake I did. And to add to it she told me she was 'confused'. Everyone said that meant there was another guy in the picture...sure enough there was and she chose him.
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