MissJoness Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 My first day in one of my science classes began. I think I am going to drop out of it. There is this girl in my class who I feel is prettier than me, and another one, and I seriously am so jealous and feel so ugly that I may drop and enroll in another class. I notice that the Prof plays favorites and is always eyeraping the prettier girls, and being flirtacious. I walked up to him to talk about the course syllabus and he wasn't nearly as flirty with me as he is with them. I also heard that he can grade based on looks..I am probably not pretty enough to his standards. I left in the middle of lecture because of my own insecurity. Now, I see why I havne't been successful meeting guys in college, I am probably not that hot to most of them, too dark, hair not pretty enough..especially wehn you have these other girls with long silky hair and better figures walking around I just pale in comparison
Vet Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 My first day in one of my science classes began. I think I am going to drop out of it. There is this girl in my class who I feel is prettier than me, and another one, and I seriously am so jealous and feel so ugly that I may drop and enroll in another class. I notice that the Prof plays favorites and is always eyeraping the prettier girls, and being flirtacious. I walked up to him to talk about the course syllabus and he wasn't nearly as flirty with me as he is with them. I also heard that he can grade based on looks..I am probably not pretty enough to his standards. I left in the middle of lecture because of my own insecurity. Now, I see why I havne't been successful meeting guys in college, I am probably not that hot to most of them, too dark, hair not pretty enough..especially wehn you have these other girls with long silky hair and better figures walking around I just pale in comparison You need therapy. Stat.
caramel c Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 My first day in one of my science classes began. I think I am going to drop out of it. There is this girl in my class who I feel is prettier than me, and another one, and I seriously am so jealous and feel so ugly that I may drop and enroll in another class. I notice that the Prof plays favorites and is always eyeraping the prettier girls, and being flirtacious. I walked up to him to talk about the course syllabus and he wasn't nearly as flirty with me as he is with them. I also heard that he can grade based on looks..I am probably not pretty enough to his standards. I left in the middle of lecture because of my own insecurity. Now, I see why I havne't been successful meeting guys in college, I am probably not that hot to most of them, too dark, hair not pretty enough..especially wehn you have these other girls with long silky hair and better figures walking around I just pale in comparison You need to worry less about what your professor finds attractive so that you can pay attention to the curriculum. If it makes you feel better, go shopping, get a makeover, a pedicure, a good book, a laugh with friends, ANYTHING to make yourself feel better. And when you figure out what does, do it over and over again as often as you can. You are in a rut and you need an out, fast.
Author MissJoness Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 You need to worry less about what your professor finds attractive so that you can pay attention to the curriculum. If it makes you feel better, go shopping, get a makeover, a pedicure, a good book, a laugh with friends, ANYTHING to make yourself feel better. And when you figure out what does, do it over and over again as often as you can. You are in a rut and you need an out, fast. I can't help it if he's constantly flirting with the girl in our lecture and making little comments. It irritates me. I feel like I'm not pretty
caramel c Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 We are not professionals. We are a group of the romantically challenged.
caramel c Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 I can't help it if he's constantly flirting with the girl in our lecture and making little comments. It irritates me. I feel like I'm not pretty Is it sexual harassment happening in front of your eyes? Give me an example.
Author MissJoness Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Is it sexual harassment happening in front of your eyes? Give me an example. No, it's not sexual harassment, it's just that his eyes are always on her, and whenever he passes out an assignment when he gets to her he always is smiling and making little meaningless comments. It bugs me and I wish that I could get this type of treatment. When I talk to him he doesn't do that.
caramel c Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 No, it's not sexual harassment, it's just that his eyes are always on her, and whenever he passes out an assignment when he gets to her he always is smiling and making little meaningless comments. It bugs me and I wish that I could get this type of treatment. When I talk to him he doesn't do that. Chillax. You are there to learn.
MissViolet Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 You sound kind of similar to another poster...I can't remember her username..But she's constantly comparing herself to others and saying how dark she is. Anyway, when I was in college, I was there to learn...you are there to learn are you not? If so, why does it bother you that other girls are pretty? There will always be people who are better looking or smarter, that's just life. Maybe it's just in your mind that you think your prof is looking at those pretty girls differently. You may be over analyzing. And if you're considering of dropping a course because there are pretty girls in them....then I think you should seek some professional help.
DunnoWhat Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 You have been brainwashed by the media etc because looks is everything to you. Thats a very shallow mindset to have. You also come across as negative and somebody with low self esteem. If you look around and see others who are negative and have low self esteem you'll notice that people feel uncomfortable around them. Nothing to do with looks.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 I wouldn't drop out of a class just because a professor is playing favorites. If you think being pretty is what will make you feel better ( I know it does me) then you need to start working on the things that'll enhance you. Wear push up bras, go sleeveless ( since it's still the Fall), get trendy boots or heels ( straps are sexually enticing) and buy make up that will add to your feature. If you look at movie stars, they look appalling nude ( face- wise). But they have make up artists that work their magic to make them looking carpet stunning. So work on those if they don't help, then you might need to see a therapist.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Holy ****. This has to be a joke. Honey, it's your ****ty self-esteem that turns them off more than anything.
D-Lish Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 Come on people- it's a trolleee-troll! Anyone that jumps on the site with an abundance of controversey in less than 10 minutes needs to be ignored.
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