raven1 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Okay I need to break up with my boyfriend (of 8 months) (except he is away til next week-no he is not with her), I found some e-mails that say he is cheating on me. Here is the confusing part, I think it has been going on for about 2 weeks. He told me that he wanted a little space but that we were still exclusive, said that he needed to spend more time with his kids...then in the same breath asked me away on that weekend with them (kids 18 and 19). Why he continue to take family trips with me involved if he wants to be with someone else?? He also encouraged the kids and I to see each other while he was away? I just found all of this a few days ago. He also said that he wanted not to talk to me while away, but yesterday and today he has been texting and calling a lot. I am not answering all his communications. Just not sure what he is doing.
hoping2heal Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Okay I need to break up with my boyfriend (of 8 months) (except he is away til next week-no he is not with her), I found some e-mails that say he is cheating on me. Here is the confusing part, I think it has been going on for about 2 weeks. He told me that he wanted a little space but that we were still exclusive, said that he needed to spend more time with his kids...then in the same breath asked me away on that weekend with them (kids 18 and 19). Why he continue to take family trips with me involved if he wants to be with someone else?? He also encouraged the kids and I to see each other while he was away? I just found all of this a few days ago. He also said that he wanted not to talk to me while away, but yesterday and today he has been texting and calling a lot. I am not answering all his communications. Just not sure what he is doing. Well, there's a whole board on here called OM/OW about men and women who have someone on the side and a primary partner. If a man can have two women doting on him, feeding his ego and emotional supply, etc. He's going to take that. Not all men of course, I just refer to the cheating ones. It's as simple as that, now there's many naive people here who believe they are still with their primary partners because of children/housing arrangements/ obligations, but that's just something that naive people who haven't figured it out yet in life that actions speak louder than words, and actions are the only truth. So, why is he going along with you? Simple, because he can.
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