Author ilius Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 The one that's ending/ended is an LDR. A VERY VERY LDR. So I won't have to worry about her bothering me.
jennifer4 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 ok. well how about emotionally? Are you over it,are you ending it? If so then go for it. It sounds like this woman is very interested. Give her a call and like a previous person mentioned, don't mention exes.
Author ilius Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Yeah, I'm over it. I still think about her, but I don't have a lot of negative emotion or sadness about it. I won't even bring up exes - but what if she does?
jennifer4 Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 If she asks tell her you are out of a relationship, I don't think I'd mention how recent. If she brings hers up listen but focus more on the present not past. I doubt she'll bring it up.
Pink Cupcakes Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 If she brings up her ex, she is not over her ex and I would back off at that point.
lovesacks Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Met this girl at somebodys wedding. We talked for like an hour despite all the noise of the djs and dancing. Shes older than me by three years (school by four) and just starting grad school. Shes definitely an outgoing person, so I don't know if she likes me or not. I got her email, she's got mine, but I don't know how to ask her on a date, or if I even should. I don't even know if she's into me like that. Help? well nothing is hard about emailing someone, i would just email her and see what she has to say at least
callingyouuu Posted August 30, 2009 Posted August 30, 2009 It's now or never, dude. You had great conversation at the wedding for a whole hour with someone you just met, something that doesn't happen every day. You'll be fine.
jennifer4 Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 what happened? Have you called her yet? Hope it went well if you did.
Author ilius Posted August 31, 2009 Author Posted August 31, 2009 I called her, and even though the first couple times she was busy with things (I know she was because I heard people in the background), the third time we did talk, and she accepted my proposal to hang out and get something to eat Tuesday night. Now I'm just hoping I'm not one of those guys she'll only see "as a friend."
Author ilius Posted August 31, 2009 Author Posted August 31, 2009 Also I'm curious, is there anything anybody knows that I should be aware of in this situation, because I'm entering college, and she's entering grad school. That's a bit of a cultural difference.
Pink Cupcakes Posted September 2, 2009 Posted September 2, 2009 I don't think that is a considered a cultural difference. You are getting an education, she is just a few years further along. That would indicate that education is important to both of you and you are both ambitious and/or intellectual. It's all good.
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