pinkstar Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 I met him 6 months ago over internet and we have never met in person. I found him very attractive, smart and everything I was always looking for in a partner. We are from 2 countries that it is impossible to meet, because of visa problems. But, I am leaving my country to start a new life in another country which is far from my home country and also farther from his country. I will leave in 2 months. The point is I really can not trust him. He told me several times that he is single but go out with "Previous girl friends" and have sex with them, but no committment at all. I really can not believe him and it seems funny. Even if he is telling me the truth, I really can not appreciate this kind of personality that uses the girls for that ...So, from the time he told me like this ( which is 3 weeks ago) I tried to keep the distance and appear less online than before maybe I can forget completely about him...I have become so attached and Im sorry to confess that I completely fell in love. Some times I think even if we were together, he was always changing partners and might spend less time with me! He has told me some times that he likes me and he wishes we could meet in person...The last news is he wrote me an email and said he is still single and he's trying to work out if he can meet me in the country that I am about to go in 2 months...Im so confused, I am thinking maybe he is playing just to see what I might say ..on the other hand I am thinking maybe he is telling me the truth...I really do not know how to reply back his email. He also added at the end that "Maybe, Im naive! " his last comment made me reply back. I know he 's smart and he tried to push me to reply ...Im really confused. I do not know how to reply back and if he is the proper person or not. Please guide me through this.
carvidep Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 The point is I really can not trust him. He told me several times that he is single but go out with "Previous girl friends" and have sex with them, but no committment at all. I really can not believe him and it seems funny. Even if he is telling me the truth, I really can not appreciate this kind of personality that uses the girls for that. He's not ready to settle down. If you don't want to be another one of those girls on his list, let him go. I'm sure you'll find someone amazing who you CAN trust elsewhere.
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