Bgirl Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Hi Everyone so here is a story that made me think.. and it'd be nice to share some thoughts... Couple Months ago I started noticing how this amazingly cute guy stands at the bus stop with me every morning to cath the same bus. I didn't really say anything at first , but after noticing that we would encounter each other frequently we started talking. So I felt there was "something going on" you know , when you just know that is not just an stranger talking to you , but that special smile, look etc. We star talking and we start to find out basic things about each other , place of work , etc. Whenever we see each other before or after the weekend he talks to me about what he did and asks me how my weekend was , what did I do etc. When this weekend conversations happen he always says things like " Oh just spent time with my family on Saturday and Sunday I didnt do anything" OR " Since I live alone I just spend time relaxing" OR " I just saw my buddy and didnt do anything else". Since he stopped sitting at the back of the bus and sitting next to me and asking me questions about my health when I was sick, how did my work project went etc I foolishly assumed he was single. IT TURNS OUT that yesterday I finally decided to ask him : So who are you going to the beach with , friends or family ? And after a long long long pause he replied......................." The girlfriend". Hmm I mean not big deal as he was just a crush but I guess Its just a lesson learned that a cute and sweet guy talking to me doesnt mean anything....... I'm just sruprised he never mentioned his girlfriend in any of the conversationds we had for two months........... That's why I actually thought he liked me . Why would a guy not mention his girlfriend ? Does that mean he actually liked me ?
Vet Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Hi Everyone so here is a story that made me think.. and it'd be nice to share some thoughts... Couple Months ago I started noticing how this amazingly cute guy stands at the bus stop with me every morning to cath the same bus. I didn't really say anything at first , but after noticing that we would encounter each other frequently we started talking. So I felt there was "something going on" you know , when you just know that is not just an stranger talking to you , but that special smile, look etc. We star talking and we start to find out basic things about each other , place of work , etc. Whenever we see each other before or after the weekend he talks to me about what he did and asks me how my weekend was , what did I do etc. When this weekend conversations happen he always says things like " Oh just spent time with my family on Saturday and Sunday I didnt do anything" OR " Since I live alone I just spend time relaxing" OR " I just saw my buddy and didnt do anything else". Since he stopped sitting at the back of the bus and sitting next to me and asking me questions about my health when I was sick, how did my work project went etc I foolishly assumed he was single. IT TURNS OUT that yesterday I finally decided to ask him : So who are you going to the beach with , friends or family ? And after a long long long pause he replied......................." The girlfriend". Hmm I mean not big deal as he was just a crush but I guess Its just a lesson learned that a cute and sweet guy talking to me doesnt mean anything....... I'm just sruprised he never mentioned his girlfriend in any of the conversationds we had for two months........... That's why I actually thought he liked me . Why would a guy not mention his girlfriend ? Does that mean he actually liked me ? Sounds like he's interested, but is attached.
Author Bgirl Posted August 29, 2009 Author Posted August 29, 2009 Makes sense Vet, but why if a guy is attached and interested in his gf wouldnt you mention her..I think that if someone is in a happy relationship they would be more than excited to talk about their partner and they wouldnt have the intention of talking to someone else...correct me if Im wrong.
Vet Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Makes sense Vet, but why if a guy is attached and interested in his gf wouldnt you mention her..I think that if someone is in a happy relationship they would be more than excited to talk about their partner and they wouldnt have the intention of talking to someone else...correct me if Im wrong. What I'm saying is that the way you stated it, it sounds like he's interested in you, but he's also in a relationship with a girlfriend and probably isn't ready to end it (since he mentioned it).
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