flyoversea Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 I was with a guy for about 3 years and ever since we been together we always had problems he used to put me down and make me feel bad about everthing ive done in life after dating him for 4 months we broke up day before valentines so we broke up for about 2 months and he decided he missed me he wanted me back so we go back together and things were great and all that wo broke up again after 8 months never talk again until he texted me one day and we decide to work things out now its been year and half i lived with him for 5months it was a big mistake of my life to live with him he was never home bearly spend time with me and always busy with work and making money and he was very stingy he used the word I work so much now so we dont have problem in the future we can collect money while sitting at home then one day we had a fight and he told me to leave and never ever speak to me he left me again as always he blame me for everything i dont know what i want to do with my life he said how can he be with someone like me and the way my family are i told him how can i be with someone like him who doesnt respect me or my family. I just feel sad and hurt I did so much for this guy and how can he let go like this and act like it meant nothing how? then I spoke with his mom she said he did this so he can concentrate in work and be with you in the future few months from now are you kidding me am not just a game to him that he can walk out on mehen he gets tired. I just want to know how can some man be so cold and selfish he told me he loved me and he cared for me but he walked out on me is it even true love? or getting used to someone that you just have to leave them? Its been 2 weeks and I feel misrable I keep going over my head or I wish i was with him eevnthough i wasnt happy when i was with him not sure what I should do I still love him he says he look around the house for me and cry thinking about me but why not wont me back he said he wants to get serious but he left me then he thinks he can come and go as he please I just want to know is it even worth a tear on someone like him? all he cares about is how to make money and himself and he keeps people around for his own reason and when his done he get rid of them. I just dont know anymroe.
Bleeve Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 "ever since we been together we always had problems he used to put me down and make me feel bad about everthing ive done in life " and "i wasnt happy when i was with him not sure what I should do I still love him " You need to love yourself enough to realize that someone that treats you bad does not love you. You deserve better then that. And you were not happy when you were with him anyway...so find someone that respects you and treats you good and that you can be happy with Maybe seeing a therapist is not a bad idea for you at this time
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